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User Topic: Triggery movies
Brandon808
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Default  Posted: 10:18 PM, January 11th (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I came across a movie on cable and to say it was triggery would be like saying the Hulk has some mild anger management issues. Thing is the movie was not high profile so checking out a movie you haven''t heard of can be like trigger-minefield. These are a few lower profile movies to be careful of if you want to avoid triggery stories.

About Adam
28 Hotel Rooms
Closer
Incendiary
Before the Devil Knows You''re Dead

Feel free to add to the list.

[This message edited by Brandon808 at 10:20 PM, January 11th, 2014 (Saturday)]


xBH
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nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 10:19 PM, January 11th (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

((((Brandon))))


You can call me NIK

"Keep your face always toward the sunshine - and shadows will fall behind you."
-Walt Whitman


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heartbroken303
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Default  Posted: 10:37 PM, January 11th (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Yep there are those for me too.

Ever hear a song called "Redneck Crazy"? That one triggers me. Essentially I've gone redneck crazy in some ways and they make light of it.

Strangely right after D-Day for me a video was circulating the internet of a cheating wife getting beheaded by her husband. I didn't think that was funny either. But my WW really hated it.


Me (BS) 42
Her (WS) 41
DD #1 October 31, 2013 She admits to on-line emotional affair.
DD #2 November 27, 2013 She admits to sexual affair the previous weekend.
Married 17 years, together for 23 years-2DDs
OM - Married coward with children

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Brandon808
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Default  Posted: 10:53 PM, January 11th (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

No, I'm not much of Country/Western fan. I looked it up and you're not wrong about the song.
The two that come to my mind are "The Rain" by Oran "Juice" Jones and "I don't ever wanna see you again" by Uncle Sam. Both came out in the 80s. R&B songs always seem to hit the bullseye on this stuff.


xBH
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silverhopes
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Default  Posted: 11:47 PM, January 11th (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Match Point
Conversations with Other Women
Lost in Translation
The Other Woman
Hook
He's Just Not That Into You
Intersection
The Girl With the Dragon Tattoo
The Rum Diary
American Beauty
The Horse Whisperer
Heartburn
About Schmidt
The Middle Men
Beautiful Girls
Fatal Attraction (probably the best known)
Tekken
What's Eating Gilbert Grape
Dreamland
How to Be a Player
Mona Lisa Smile
Braveheart
Forces of Nature
Love Actually
even a moment of it in The Dark Knight

[This message edited by silverhopes at 12:07 AM, January 12th (Sunday)]


Find peace. Or sleep on it.
Sometimes my monkeys, sometimes my circus.
Infidelities are like icebergs - they may take many different shapes and sizes, but they all damage your ship.

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Brandon808
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Default  Posted: 11:51 PM, January 11th (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Tekken??? Really? Wow.


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MylarPineapples
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Default  Posted: 11:56 PM, January 11th (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Silverhopes, I watched "He's Just Not That Into You" on TV the other night. I actually hadn't seen it before, and I did find it very triggery. Pretty well ruined Bradley Cooper for me for awhile I think.


Me: BS, Him: WH, 3 kids
8/08: EA with former neighbor
1/13: EA/Sexting with Coworker #1
6/13: Sexting with Coworker #2

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silverhopes
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Default  Posted: 12:08 AM, January 12th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

In Tekken, could have sworn he had a girlfriend in the beginning and then was busy getting way too close to the other girl in the competition. But I could be wrong - I would be very happy if I'm wrong.

Yeah, "He's Just Not That Into You" was just one of many where Scarlett Johansson plays the other woman.


Find peace. Or sleep on it.
Sometimes my monkeys, sometimes my circus.
Infidelities are like icebergs - they may take many different shapes and sizes, but they all damage your ship.

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Jesu
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Default  Posted: 12:12 AM, January 12th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

The Notebook. Terrible movie...not sure why anyone would rate it highly.


Me: BSO 39
Her: WSO 29
Together: 9 years
Married?: No
Children?: No
OM: A friend of a friend
DD#1: June 18th 2012
Many more DD after TT
PA#1: 1 week in Nov/Dec 2010, which led to a long distance EA
R: ?

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Brandon808
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Default  Posted: 12:14 AM, January 12th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Yeah, ScarJo was the OW in Match Point, Lost in Translation, The Other Boleyn Girl, and The Prestige.


xBH
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MairISaoirse
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Default  Posted: 12:20 AM, January 12th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

one of BFs favorite movies became a trigger, at least for me

Goon


Mad Hatter

Me: 21
Him: 21
Together 2 years
my ONS->1 mo EA abroad

after D-Day BF admitted he had broken NC with EXGF (EA)
D-DAY 11/21/13

In Limbo


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Brandon808
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Default  Posted: 12:20 AM, January 12th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

The Notebook. Terrible movie...not sure why anyone would rate it highly.
Because it depicts tru luuuuuurrrrrrv


xBH
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silverhopes
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Default  Posted: 12:22 AM, January 12th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

That's right, The Prestige! Just saw that recently on TV for the first time.


Find peace. Or sleep on it.
Sometimes my monkeys, sometimes my circus.
Infidelities are like icebergs - they may take many different shapes and sizes, but they all damage your ship.

Posts: 3921 | Registered: Jul 2011 | From: California
MylarPineapples
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Default  Posted: 12:23 AM, January 12th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I love the way The Notebook portrays the elderly husband's devotion to his wife. But yeah, the parts where she runs off on her fiancÚ to try out her old relationship one more time suck.


Me: BS, Him: WH, 3 kids
8/08: EA with former neighbor
1/13: EA/Sexting with Coworker #1
6/13: Sexting with Coworker #2

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Jesu
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Default  Posted: 12:34 AM, January 12th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Because it depicts tru luuuuuurrrrrrv

It doesn't though, it just depicts some slut cheating on her devoted partner!


Me: BSO 39
Her: WSO 29
Together: 9 years
Married?: No
Children?: No
OM: A friend of a friend
DD#1: June 18th 2012
Many more DD after TT
PA#1: 1 week in Nov/Dec 2010, which led to a long distance EA
R: ?

Posts: 608 | Registered: Aug 2012 | From: Oz
Jesu
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Default  Posted: 12:36 AM, January 12th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I love the way The Notebook portrays the elderly OM devotion to a WW.


Me: BSO 39
Her: WSO 29
Together: 9 years
Married?: No
Children?: No
OM: A friend of a friend
DD#1: June 18th 2012
Many more DD after TT
PA#1: 1 week in Nov/Dec 2010, which led to a long distance EA
R: ?

Posts: 608 | Registered: Aug 2012 | From: Oz
Brandon808
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Default  Posted: 12:38 AM, January 12th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Because it depicts tru luuuuuurrrrrrv
It doesn't though, it just depicts some slut cheating on her devoted partner!

Yes, that's why I wrote 'luuuuuurrrrrrv' instead of love

p.s. There have been a few threads about lurv vs love. Luuurrrrv being the infatuation, childish, immature, delusional fantasy the AP's engage in and believe they've found the proverbial romantic fantasy come-to-life.


xBH
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Long Gone
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Default  Posted: 1:43 AM, January 12th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Seren-fucking-depity

I loved that movie until I read texts about it going back and forth between the 2 shit birds

Now I want to piss on it


D-Day 11/26/10

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Stronger4it
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Default  Posted: 8:59 AM, January 12th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

A fish called Wanda!

Loved it for years. Did not think John Cleese (boring, toenail clipping barrister) was a cad for stepping out with Jamie lee Curtis (slutty criminal). But it is so close to reality.

Still funny. I just look at it more critically.


Me BS 46
Him WS 48
Together 18 yrs
Daughter 9
DD Nov 13/12
Today ?

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painfulpast
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Default  Posted: 9:05 AM, January 12th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

The Notebook definitely

And oddly, A Fish called Wafflehouse Wanda just made the list


The stones from my enemies, these wounds will mend
but I cannot survive the roses from my friends

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