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Topic: Read this article and felt someone had interview me about my ex!

Strongmama
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Posted: 3:00 PM, January 12th (Sunday), 2014

This is a good read for anyone trying to figure out how to survive a divorce from, and co-parent with a Sociopath.
It's certainly not for the weak, and now I see all the times I've handled it incorrectly. I'm slowly learning he truly has no conscience, and he has no remorse or concern for how his behavior hurts these children or me. It's disturbing, but oh so true and spot on. These broken sociopaths will NEVER tell the truth, or admit fault. Ever. It's just the way it is.
My mission is to now make sure my children and I have the tools and knowledge to survive this monster. He will not change, but I will change the way I react and get the counseling we all need to heal from the abuse he has put us through.
Hope this will help someone out there!

http://gps-gracepowerstrength.blogspot.com/2013/07/when-sociopath-meets-nice-person.html?m=1

Posts: 662 | Registered: Aug 2011

Dobegirl
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Posted: 6:03 PM, January 12th (Sunday), 2014

Thank you for sharing this strongmama.
This explains my situation and what I'm going through EXACTLY! Minus the children thank God.
He is not who I thought I married and never was.
Honestly I don't know who the fuck he is. I keep finding more and more stuff about him. All he denies of course.

Glad he is 800 miles away, so glad!

Thank God the light bulb has finally went off in my head. I am divorcing this POS soon.
I fear he has broken me...but only temporary. But I doubt I will ever love or trust blindly again

Me- BS 44 Always faithfull
Him- WS 44
2 mo. EA/PA with 25 yr. old slut that stroked his ego, OL profiles, CL ads
Married 8 years-No kids together
DDay-11/21/12...and many more
False R 2 LONG years
Time is a thief when your undecided

Posts: 159 | Registered: Dec 2013 | From: Northern Indiana

littlefoggy
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Member # 41429

Posted: 6:54 PM, January 12th (Sunday), 2014

That was pretty spot on about what I am going through with my STBX.

Scary accurate.

Me: BW 30
WH 37
DDay 11/12/13
Divorcing

Posts: 505 | Registered: Nov 2013

newlysingle
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Member # 38735

Posted: 8:27 PM, January 12th (Sunday), 2014

Wow, I never really considered the Gnat a sociopath, but he fits a many parts of this. Just a few areas where he doesn't. It makes me re-consider how I deal with him.

BW - Me (40)
XWH -The Gnat
"Engaged" to OW, but the wedding appears to be indefinitely postponed.
M for 8 years, together for 10
1 DD (8), 1 DS (3)
Dday 3/13
Happily Divorced 9/20/13

Posts: 1266 | Registered: Mar 2013 | From: AZ

StrongAlone
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Posted: 8:28 PM, January 12th (Sunday), 2014

That describes my STBX to a tee but he's very subtle about it. He completely discarded me once I exposed his double life and never once fought to get me or the kids back. Never once did he say he'd do anything. He tried to flip everything back on me and it took me a while to realize I will never understand his crazy world because I'm just not built that way. Thank god for that.

Thanks for sharing strongmama.

Me (BS) 41 Him, SA, covert NDP
Married 8 years, 2 young kids

2014 Divorced!!

Posts: 158 | Registered: Jun 2013 | From: Canada

Chrysalis123
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Posted: 9:28 PM, January 12th (Sunday), 2014

Wow...that is a great article. Thanks

Someone I once loved gave me/ a box full of darkness/ It took me years to understand/ That this, too, was a gift. - Mary Oliver

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