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User Topic: car wash - spite - vent
unfound
♀ 12802
Member # 12802
Default  Posted: 7:54 PM, January 12th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

finally a day warm enough to wash the car, yay!

The line was long. Really long. Like wait 20 minutes in line long.

When it's finally my turn, I plunk my quarters in and get to work, mainly just to get the sand/salt off and underneath.

I finish and notice there's about 5 minutes left on the stall, so I walk to the car behind me to tell them 5 minutes was on me . When I approach the car, the man in the car rolls his window down and says " it's about TIME. you didn't need to take so long! I've been waiting for an hour!"

I smiled and let him know that although there was time left on the machine, looking at it from *this* angle (squinting and leaning awkwardly sideways), I thought it might need another rinse.. and proceeded to stand in the stall, spraying the wall for 4 1/2 minutes .

mean fucker.


ka-mai
*******************
From time to time, I do consider that I might be mad. Like any self-respecting lunatic, however, I am always quick to dismiss any doubts about my sanity. DK

Posts: 14866 | Registered: Nov 2006 | From: mercury's underboob
Dreamboat
♀ 10506
Member # 10506
Default  Posted: 8:42 PM, January 12th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I love you man

Seriously, I would have done the same thing. It is not your fault that everyone wanted to wash their car today and it is not your fault that he had to wait just like you did. What a jerk!


And it's hard to dance with a devil on your back
So shake him off
-- Shake It Out, Florence And The Machine

Posts: 17695 | Registered: Apr 2006 | From: A better place :)
nowiknow23
♀ 33226
Member # 33226
Default  Posted: 8:44 PM, January 12th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

What a jerkface.


You can call me NIK

"If you carry joy in your heart, you can heal any moment."
- Carlos Santana


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metamorphisis
♀ 12041
Member # 12041
Default  Posted: 8:45 PM, January 12th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Also love you
The only thing better would have been to sit on the trunk and stare him down for the last 5 minutes



“We don't see things as they are; we see them as we are.”... Anais Nin

Posts: 45266 | Registered: Sep 2006
Kelany
♀ 34755
Member # 34755
Default  Posted: 8:47 PM, January 12th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

You are awesome!!!!!


BS - Me
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R Dec 12

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GabyBaby
♀ 26928
Member # 26928
Default  Posted: 8:48 PM, January 12th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

The only thing better would have been to sit on the trunk and stare him down for the last 5 minutes
OMG this!!! LOL!
FWIW, I also love that you just went and sprayed the walls for 5 minutes.
Screw mean people!


Me - 42
SorryInSac (STBX WH#2) - 47. DDay 7/12/14
Married 4, together 7yrs total
Status - Stick a fork in me...

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persevere
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Member # 31468
Default  Posted: 8:52 PM, January 12th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


Me: BW-44
Him: XWH-44
Together 9 yrs
DDays: 1/10/2011
Status: Divorced 4/27/11

Above all, be the heroine, not the victim. - Nora Ephron

It is our choices...that show what we truly are, far more than our abilities.
- J. K. Rowling


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wifehad5
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Default  Posted: 8:56 PM, January 12th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


FBH - 42
FWW - 43 (BrokenRoad)
2 kids 7&12

The people you do your life with shape the life you live


Posts: 37610 | Registered: Jun 2007 | From: Michigan
unfound
♀ 12802
Member # 12802
Default  Posted: 9:08 PM, January 12th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

...to sit on the trunk and stare him down for the last 5 minutes

where were you 9 hours ago???

mental note: take meta to the car wash next time.


ka-mai
*******************
From time to time, I do consider that I might be mad. Like any self-respecting lunatic, however, I am always quick to dismiss any doubts about my sanity. DK

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LosferWords
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Default  Posted: 9:23 PM, January 12th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

That's awesome, unfound!

And good suggestion, meta!


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jo2love
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Default  Posted: 10:00 PM, January 12th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


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Gottagetthrough
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Default  Posted: 10:13 PM, January 12th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

are you kidding, he yelled because you took too long... sheesh!

and if he actually waited a full hour to wash his car, that's his own foolishness!


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purplejacket4
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Default  Posted: 10:59 PM, January 12th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

It would have been a darn toot in' shame if your hand had slipped and you sprayed him through the window.


Me: BS 45
Her: fWS 48 (same sex partner)
Together: 18 years now (both MDs)
OW: meh so what 40s PhD
DD1: 10/30/11EA; DD2: 11/10/11 Had ONS; TT until 12/26/11; broke NC 6/12; NC again 7/12; R-ish

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