I tell her I will help in any way possible, she has asked me for help on a couple things but it seemed very hard for her.
In MC she admitted she felt this was her problem so she needed to handle it on her own. She knows it not the right way to look at it, but change is hard.
I'm just there to listen, give her a hug or kiss on the head when I see she needs it. Most of all, not push her about it or us.
She said that she knows shes been pulling back, but will do whatever I need to feel reassured. Honestly, that was all I really needed to pull my head out of my arse.