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Lex71 (original poster member #41172) posted at 11:38 PM on Tuesday, January 14th, 2014
Im tired and cranky. Had an all day meeting in another location which meant a few hours travel at the end of the day.
Tomorrow I begin moving out properly. I'm moving from WGF so that the kids can stay in 'their' home and since WGF can't afford to move (nor can I afford to be single parent without co-parenting) I agreed to move.
Everything seems to have come flooding back tonight. Stuff I haven't thought about for 8 weeks or more....I am feeling upset and lonely. I spent a while crying this evening, I hate how things are fucked up. Tomorrow, I will try and pick myself up and get on with the business of moving out.
Me: 42 Her: xWGf 39
Not married only engaged.
Two great kids, both under 6
DDay #1: 18 Nov 2013
DDay #2: July 2011
Deeply Scared ( Administrator #2) posted at 11:55 PM on Tuesday, January 14th, 2014
Lex...
I'm sorry you're feeling so down, I hope tomorrow is a little brighter for you.
"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." My Mom:)
My tolerance for stupid shit is getting less and less.
gypsybird87 ( member #39193) posted at 1:19 AM on Wednesday, January 15th, 2014
((Lex))
I'm sorry its been a rough day. I hate those days where you just feel defeated. Hopefully once you are getting settled in your new place and have a little removal from the drama, you will feel better.
Sending strength. Hang in there.
Me: Enjoying life
Him: Someone else's problem
Follow your heart, but take your brain with you. ~ Alfred Adler
Letting go of the outcome is about the most empowering thing you can do for yourself. ~ LosferWords
nowiknow23 ( member #33226) posted at 1:26 AM on Wednesday, January 15th, 2014
((((Lex)))) The ebb and flow is to be expected, unfortunately. I know that doesn't make the low times any easier.
Hang in there, hon. Remember to focus on your self-care, especially when you are having a bad day.
You can call me NIK
And never grow a wishbone, daughter, where your backbone ought to be.
― Sarah McMane
nomoredreams ( new member #41907) posted at 1:32 AM on Wednesday, January 15th, 2014
I am so sorry that today has been rough. It sound like tomorrow is going to be tough as well. I will pray that you have strength and peace...always. nmd
wifehad5 ( Administrator #15162) posted at 1:35 AM on Wednesday, January 15th, 2014
FBH - 52 FWW - 53 (BrokenRoad)2 kids 17 & 22The people you do your life with shape the life you live
dmg35 ( new member #41552) posted at 5:43 AM on Wednesday, January 15th, 2014
Tomorrow is another day. Feel better man.
hangingonin ( member #29530) posted at 7:19 AM on Wednesday, January 15th, 2014
I know the ups and downs very well too. My thoughts are with you ((hugs))
Nest2007 ( member #39532) posted at 11:53 AM on Wednesday, January 15th, 2014
(((Lex))) I know those days and I feel your pain. Sorry it's been such a hard day. Thinking of you.
BS 35
WS 31
DD, only child
DDay: 06/09/13
End of TT/Full Disclosure 07/08/13
Reconciling. A stronger marriage now.
Psalm 37. It rocks my world. So does 140. Big guy upstairs has got it all figured out.
Kitty70 ( member #41939) posted at 12:00 PM on Wednesday, January 15th, 2014
(((Lex)))
So sorry. One day at a time. Don't let her take your hope.
Me: BGF, 43
Him: WBF, 35
Together 9 years, moved in 8/15/2013
HobbesTheTiger ( member #41477) posted at 12:23 PM on Wednesday, January 15th, 2014
Sorry to hear about your situation!
But don't move out of your home&don't leave your kids WITHOUT talking about it with your LAWYER!
It might look really bad when it comes to custody issues etc.
Check out the betrayed men on "I can relate", post your situation there.
Best wishes to you and the kids
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