(((16forever))) i don't envy you... We have a situation in our circle of couple friends. And actually, we ditched the OM because the BH is more fun.
but really we see the fOM occasionally, he actually moved four hours away... But when we have to choose, (because the BH's cousin is also a very good friend, and won't come if the OM is there, either) we choose the fBH and his fWW. It's hard, because we met the whole group through the OM... But as a BW myself, I'd rather show loyalty to the people trying to save their marriage... Oh, and the fOM's new wife is obnoxious... And completely opposite of the rest of our political views.
[This message edited by steadfast1973 at 5:24 PM, January 15th (Wednesday)]