Keeping tabs on OW is only hurting you and driving you bat crazy
I know this is the traditional advice. And I can see where it works well. I've even used it with the 4 other OW (one of which I've been friends with for over 20 years). There are very specific reasons for keeping this one visible to me.
I posted this just so I'd have an outlet for what I wanted say, but knew would do more damage than good in that public space. With one exception (less than a month from dday), I have always and will always continue to take the high road mostly because I refuse to be drawn down to their level.