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Reconciliation :
sex question for men (or ladies too I guess! )

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 JustSoSad42 (original poster member #41711) posted at 4:37 AM on Thursday, January 16th, 2014

Cross - posted in general forum...

Guys, is it physically possible to pull out while having sex sitting up on a sofa, girl on top?

I worry my husband is just saying he pulled out because it sounds better than not pulling out. I feel like this is an important detail I need to know, and need some outside input because I have zero experience with pulling out.

BS: 26, SAHM
WH: 29. Together 10yrs, married 6
3 kids 3 and under
DDay 11/21/13 Husband had ONS Aug. 2013 while living across the country temporarily for work.

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Mama58 ( member #41685) posted at 6:07 AM on Thursday, January 16th, 2014

Possible- highly unlikely though. This is textbook cheater minimizing to make the whole affair 'palatable ' to you. I bet it was full on crazy sex and much more than he admits to, it always is.

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cannibal ( member #40560) posted at 6:41 AM on Thursday, January 16th, 2014

You definitely can. I would say it's a lot harder to not make a mess unless you push the woman off of you or she doesn't want to take it.Then it's not too bad at all.

Me: BS 45 Her: WS 45 dss: 25 deceased 02/15/23D-day: 06/06/04. OnsD-day: 02/28/13. length of A: 4+ monthsSeperation after ddayMoved back in 6/20/13Broke n/c: 07/24/13D-day: 01/08/24Seperated after dday looking into divorce

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steadfast1973 ( member #24719) posted at 9:59 AM on Friday, January 17th, 2014

Yes.

Me- 42- BS Him- 38- WH D-day#1 5/25/09 multi EAs, likely PA, trickle truth, d-day#2 11/06/13 Prostitute Separated 1/2017
"I've seen your flag on the marble arch, our love is not a victory march, it's a cold and broken hallelujah"

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numb&dumb ( member #28542) posted at 6:08 PM on Friday, January 17th, 2014

Yes possible. BTDT.

Dday 8/31/11. EA/PA. Lied to for 3 years.

Bring it, life. I am ready for you.

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