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User Topic: sex question for men (or ladies too I guess! )
♀ 41711
Member # 41711
Default  Posted: 10:37 PM, January 15th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Cross - posted in general forum...

Guys, is it physically possible to pull out while having sex sitting up on a sofa, girl on top?

I worry my husband is just saying he pulled out because it sounds better than not pulling out. I feel like this is an important detail I need to know, and need some outside input because I have zero experience with pulling out.

BS: 26, SAHM
WH: 29. Together 10yrs, married 6
3 kids 3 and under
DDay 11/21/13 Husband had ONS Aug. 2013 while living across the country temporarily for work.

Posts: 88 | Registered: Dec 2013 | From: United States
♀ 41685
Member # 41685
Default  Posted: 12:07 AM, January 16th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Possible- highly unlikely though. This is textbook cheater minimizing to make the whole affair 'palatable ' to you. I bet it was full on crazy sex and much more than he admits to, it always is.

Posts: 61 | Registered: Dec 2013 | From: Ohio
♂ 40560
Member # 40560
Default  Posted: 12:41 AM, January 16th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

You definitely can. I would say it's a lot harder to not make a mess unless you push the woman off of you or she doesn't want to take it.Then it's not too bad at all.

Me: BF 36 Her: FWF 37 dss: 18
D-day: 06/06/04. Ons
D-day: 02/28/13. length of A: 4+ months
Seperation after dday
Moved back in 6/20/13
Broke n/c: 07/24/13
Together since: 02/05/02

Posts: 95 | Registered: Sep 2013 | From: Home of the Derby
♀ 24719
Member # 24719
Default  Posted: 3:59 AM, January 17th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


Me- 42- BS Him- 38- WH D-day#1 5/25/09 multi EAs, likely PA, trickle truth, d-day#2 11/06/13 Prostitute Separated 1/2017
"I've seen your flag on the marble arch, our love is not a victory march, it's a cold and broken hallelujah"

Posts: 2303 | Registered: Jul 2009 | From: Kentucky
♂ 28542
Member # 28542
Default  Posted: 12:08 PM, January 17th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Yes possible. BTDT.

Me-40 her-40

DS 6, DD 12
Dday 8/31/11. EA/PA. Lied to for 3 years.

Every truth comes to light in a long enough timeline.

Posts: 3387 | Registered: May 2010
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