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LA44 (original poster member #38384) posted at 6:58 PM on Thursday, January 16th, 2014
I just read every single Q&A from the BS to the fWS found in the Healing Library. I got so much out of it. I would not have been able to read it last year at this time and perhaps not even 6-8 months ago. Time, time, time.
Thank you SI! That was very helpful.
Me: 44
He: 47 WH
Married: 15 years
D Day: December 2012
Affair: Fall 2009 - Dec. 2011
R is not linear
MovingUpward ( member #14866) posted at 6:59 PM on Thursday, January 16th, 2014
, eh!
LA44 (original poster member #38384) posted at 7:04 PM on Thursday, January 16th, 2014
lol MovingUpward...You know it, eh!
Me: 44
He: 47 WH
Married: 15 years
D Day: December 2012
Affair: Fall 2009 - Dec. 2011
R is not linear
jo2love ( member #31528) posted at 7:08 PM on Thursday, January 16th, 2014
burntandtorn ( new member #41502) posted at 7:16 PM on Thursday, January 16th, 2014
I've read the three FAQ's probably 50 times each. At different moods each can help.
This site has been a life saver. Sometimes the forums might put you in a nasty place, but those faqs are spot on.
Sounds like you might also like the book "How to help your spouse heal from your affair"
http://www.amazon.com/Help-Your-Spouse-Heal-Affair/dp/145055332X
it has helped me tremendously even as a BS.
Married 12 years, together 14
BH 34
WW 35 (multiple ONS)
2 children, 8 and 10.
In MC. Trying to reconcile.
Deeply Scared ( Administrator #2) posted at 8:23 PM on Thursday, January 16th, 2014
I'm really happy that people are reading the FAQ's
Make sure to click on the Articles link also...some really great information in there too
"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." My Mom:)
My tolerance for stupid shit is getting less and less.
LA44 (original poster member #38384) posted at 9:19 PM on Thursday, January 16th, 2014
Thanks, DS - read most of those articles and so did fWS and yes, we have read that book too, burntandtorn.
Knowledge is Power!
Me: 44
He: 47 WH
Married: 15 years
D Day: December 2012
Affair: Fall 2009 - Dec. 2011
R is not linear
sisoon ( Moderator #31240) posted at 5:25 PM on Friday, January 17th, 2014
WRT Moo's post.
What's going on, Moo? Hangover fro a g2g in Canada last weekend?
fBH (me) - on d-day: 66, Married 43, together 45, same sex apDDay - 12/22/2010Recover'd and R'edYou don't have to like your boundaries. You just have to set and enforce them.
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