This book is amazing and has been, for the past 2 months, the cornerstone of me starting the process to understand the "reason why".
I was in an LTA for 6 years to a woman I didn't care about, lying to and betraying on a regular basis the woman I love, the woman I swore my life to. Needless to say, I have some issues. My A was not, as my BS likes to say, a "whoops, I had a ONS" situation.
After hearing my story in MC and IC BOTH therapists asked me to read the book and I'm glad I did. My problems are real, they're no longer a mystery and I'm not alone in trying to get mental health.
And the most hopeful part? Men with much worse stories than mine have faced down their "why" and come our stronger and saner on the other side.
I can do this....