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NoAnswers37 (original poster member #40592) posted at 9:59 AM on Friday, January 17th, 2014
Hello all!
So it's been 4-5 months since DDay and I finally feel like I definitely belong in this room now : D
I have made huge progress over the last few weeks (mostly thanks to the change in meds and my amazing friends who have supported me) and for the first time in a long time I can honestly say:
I am looking forward to my New Beginning.
Yey!
[This message edited by NoAnswers37 at 4:13 AM, January 17th (Friday)]
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MovingUpward ( member #14866) posted at 1:06 PM on Friday, January 17th, 2014
Dang I was already for "Who's there?"
Welcome to NB NoAnswers. I hope that you realize that NB means much more than just dating and relationships. It can be about any of the new changes that you take on to make your life better. Jobs, volunteering, activities . . . . enjoying life. Looking forward to the stories of your NB.
cmego ( member #30346) posted at 1:32 PM on Friday, January 17th, 2014
Welcome!
Yes, sometimes we do get "date heavy" in NB's, but it is also about everything else. Learning who we are post D. 
me...BS, 46 years old.
Divorced
NoAnswers37 (original poster member #40592) posted at 1:55 PM on Friday, January 17th, 2014
Thanks for the welcomes!
Oh, I am in NO WAY thinking of dating right now, I just for the first time since DDay feel....happy 
I feel I am finally out of the darkness and am looking forward to my new beginning (which is kind of me being ME again) and whatever that may bring.
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nowiknow23 ( member #33226) posted at 6:44 PM on Friday, January 17th, 2014
YAY!!!
You can call me NIK
And never grow a wishbone, daughter, where your backbone ought to be.
― Sarah McMane
GabyBaby ( member #26928) posted at 6:54 PM on Friday, January 17th, 2014
Woohoo!
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Love this!! I may have to steal it!
Me - late 40s
DD(27), DS(24, PDD-NOS)
WH#2 (SorryinSac)- Killed himself (May 2015) in our home 6 days after being served divorce docs.
XWH #1 - legally married 18yrs. 12+ OW (that I know of).
I edit often for clarity/typos.
NoAnswers37 (original poster member #40592) posted at 6:57 PM on Friday, January 17th, 2014
Steal away!
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wildbananas ( member #10552) posted at 7:29 PM on Friday, January 17th, 2014
Dang I was already for "Who's there?"
So was I. 
Welcome!
Travel light, live light, spread the light, be the light. ~ Yogi Bhajan
better4me ( member #30341) posted at 7:44 PM on Friday, January 17th, 2014
Better4Me answers the door, "Hello NoAnswers, we are so glad you are here!!!"
I just for the first time since DDay feel....happy
That's when I knew I was ready to join the NB forum too!
DDay 11/17/2010 BW:58
Happily remarried!
NoAnswers37 (original poster member #40592) posted at 7:49 PM on Friday, January 17th, 2014
Thanks everyone!
I am so glad to finally be here - I have been lurking for months but for some reason did not feel ready to say hello.
I think I did not feel like anyhting was beginning, I was too deep in the depression. But today it feels RIGHT!
If you would have told me back then I would be like this today, I would never have believed you, so am chuffed that the worst part is finally over
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NoAnswers37 (original poster member #40592) posted at 7:51 PM on Friday, January 17th, 2014
Oh and sorry to mislead you all into thinking this would be a humerous 'knock knock' thread - I am rubbish at jokes so won't even attempt to try!
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persevere ( member #31468) posted at 1:13 AM on Saturday, January 18th, 2014
Welcome.
DDay:2011
Status: D 2011
Remarried to a kind and wonderful man - 2017
Above all, be the heroine, not the victim. - Nora Ephron
It is our choices...that show what we truly are, far more than our abilities.
- J. K.
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