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User Topic: Doing something scary tomorrow
Eranda
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Default  Posted: 8:20 PM, January 17th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I am starting part time work at a local vape (e-cigarette) shop in a local mall.

I know it sounds stupid to be scared, but I haven't been the "new girl" in a long long time. And I am praying I know enough about vaping to help people and not to make myself sound like a moron.

I have a regular job, this is just for every other weekend when I don't have my kids. Maybe an evening here and there. It's not like I will depend on it for the money- I'm not even doing it for the money, really... I'm doing it because I believe in vaping as a way to help people quit smoking.

But I'm still so NERVOUS.


My Blog: http://allofthewaystohell.com/

Posts: 4243 | Registered: Dec 2004 | From: eastern PA
inconnu
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Default  Posted: 9:01 PM, January 17th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

((eranda)) It's not stupid to be scared or nervous. It's tough to walk in on the 1st day as the new person at a job. Trust me, I know. I've done it 3 times in the past 4 years.

It will be okay. You will be okay. Just remember, they wouldn't have hired you if they didn't think you'd do a good job. And, it's just an extra, weekend job. If you can do your regular, full-time job, you can handle this.


Say what you wanna say and let the words fall out...honestly
I wanna see you be brave

Pretty pretty please, don't you ever ever feel
Like you're less than, less than perfect


Posts: 12186 | Registered: Jun 2009 | From: DeepInTheHeartOf, TX
persevere
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Default  Posted: 10:33 PM, January 17th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

You can do it! I know many people who have converted to vaping and feel very satisfied with it and healthier.


Me: BW-44
Him: XWH-44
Together 9 yrs
DDays: 1/10/2011
Status: Divorced 4/27/11

Above all, be the heroine, not the victim. - Nora Ephron

It is our choices...that show what we truly are, far more than our abilities.
- J. K. Rowling


Posts: 4712 | Registered: Mar 2011 | From: Texas
Eranda
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Member # 6010
Default  Posted: 10:33 AM, January 19th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Ok so the day went... FINE I don't think I said anything too stupid and I'm pretty sure I didn't make a complete ass of myself. yay :)

Retail is a little different than it used to be, but it won't be hard to learn. I rang up a few sales and talked to a lot of customers and didn't feel horribly out of place, so that's good.

I might actually be able to to do this YAY!


My Blog: http://allofthewaystohell.com/

Posts: 4243 | Registered: Dec 2004 | From: eastern PA
nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 12:14 PM, January 19th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Major yay!


You can call me NIK

"Keep your face always toward the sunshine - and shadows will fall behind you."
-Walt Whitman


Posts: 26468 | Registered: Aug 2011
phmh
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Default  Posted: 4:18 PM, January 19th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Happy to read the update. Great job going outside of your comfort zone!


Me: BW, divorced, now fabulous and happy!

Married: 11 years, no kids

Character is destiny


Posts: 3534 | Registered: Dec 2011
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