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User Topic: Doing something scary tomorrow
Eranda
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Default  Posted: 8:20 PM, January 17th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I am starting part time work at a local vape (e-cigarette) shop in a local mall.

I know it sounds stupid to be scared, but I haven't been the "new girl" in a long long time. And I am praying I know enough about vaping to help people and not to make myself sound like a moron.

I have a regular job, this is just for every other weekend when I don't have my kids. Maybe an evening here and there. It's not like I will depend on it for the money- I'm not even doing it for the money, really... I'm doing it because I believe in vaping as a way to help people quit smoking.

But I'm still so NERVOUS.


My Blog: http://allofthewaystohell.com/

Posts: 4254 | Registered: Dec 2004 | From: eastern PA
inconnu
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Default  Posted: 9:01 PM, January 17th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

((eranda)) It's not stupid to be scared or nervous. It's tough to walk in on the 1st day as the new person at a job. Trust me, I know. I've done it 3 times in the past 4 years.

It will be okay. You will be okay. Just remember, they wouldn't have hired you if they didn't think you'd do a good job. And, it's just an extra, weekend job. If you can do your regular, full-time job, you can handle this.


Owning our story and loving ourselves through that process is the bravest thing we'll ever do. ~ Brené Brown

Posts: 12614 | Registered: Jun 2009 | From: DeepInTheHeartof, Texas
persevere
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Default  Posted: 10:33 PM, January 17th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

You can do it! I know many people who have converted to vaping and feel very satisfied with it and healthier.


Me: BW-45
Him: XWH-45

DDay:2011
Status: D 2011

Above all, be the heroine, not the victim. - Nora Ephron

It is our choices...that show what we truly are, far more than our abilities.
- J. K. Rowling


Posts: 5159 | Registered: Mar 2011
Eranda
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Default  Posted: 10:33 AM, January 19th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Ok so the day went... FINE I don't think I said anything too stupid and I'm pretty sure I didn't make a complete ass of myself. yay :)

Retail is a little different than it used to be, but it won't be hard to learn. I rang up a few sales and talked to a lot of customers and didn't feel horribly out of place, so that's good.

I might actually be able to to do this YAY!


My Blog: http://allofthewaystohell.com/

Posts: 4254 | Registered: Dec 2004 | From: eastern PA
nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 12:14 PM, January 19th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Major yay!


You can call me NIK

This is it. The darkest day. The blackest hour. Chin up, shoulders back. Let's see what we're made of, you and I.
― The Doctor


Posts: 36408 | Registered: Aug 2011
phmh
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Default  Posted: 4:18 PM, January 19th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Happy to read the update. Great job going outside of your comfort zone!


Me: BW, divorced, now fabulous and happy!

Married: 11 years, no kids

Character is destiny


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