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User Topic: Son phoned - he's being prepped for appendectomy
sisoon
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Default  Posted: 2:21 PM, January 18th (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

800 miles away. Can't do anything. Appendix might have burst. He said he's in awful pain.

We can't do anything to help.

We want to be there with him, DIL, and GS.

We want him to be healthy.

Seeking thoughts, mojo, prayers, if you've got some to spare. TIA.


fBH (me) - 70 (22 in my head), fWW (plainsong) - 65+, Married 45+, together since 1965
DDay - 12/22/2010
Recover'd and R'ed
I share my own experience because it's the only experience I know, not because I'm a good model.

Posts: 10755 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: Chicago area
Nature_Girl
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Default  Posted: 2:22 PM, January 18th (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Oh that's so frightening! Prayers on the way!


Me = BS (Stay-at-home-mom)
Him = EX-d out (abusive troglodyte NPD SA)
3 tween-aged kids
Together 20 years
D-Day: Memorial Weekend 2011
2013 - DIVORCED!
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wJgjyDFfJuU

Posts: 10137 | Registered: Jun 2011 | From: USA
MovingUpward
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Default  Posted: 2:24 PM, January 18th (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Sending mojo and prayers


AKA Moo

Think of the haters in your life as sandpaper; they’ll scratch you up time and time again but in the end you’re polished, smooth, and spotless..while they end up useless

We make a living by what we get, but we make a life by what we give.


Posts: 53323 | Registered: Jun 2007 | From: Big Blue Nation
cass
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Default  Posted: 2:26 PM, January 18th (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

((((sisoon and DS))))

Sending good thoughts for a full and speedy recovery. It must be so hard when you are so very far away. I'm sure he will be in good hands and praying you receive hour by hour updates until you can rest a little more easily.


DDay - April 2008
Me - 54 and doing great. Found myself again and loving life
Him - who??

I can see clearly now, the rain is gone (Johnny Nash)

Those who stir the shit soup get to lick the spoon!


Posts: 4975 | Registered: Jun 2009 | From: UK
jrc1963
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Default  Posted: 2:26 PM, January 18th (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Prayers and Mojo being sent!!!!


Me: BSO - 46
Him: FWSO - 69
DS - 13
D-Day - 12-11-09,
R - he finally came home
Your life is an Occasion. Rise to it. - Mr. Magorium, "Mr. Magorium's Wonder Emporium"

Posts: 24749 | Registered: Dec 2009 | From: Florida
nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 3:27 PM, January 18th (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Major mojo heading his way, sisoon. ((((all of you))))


You can call me NIK

"Keep your face always toward the sunshine - and shadows will fall behind you."
-Walt Whitman


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authenticnow
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Default  Posted: 3:32 PM, January 18th (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Sending lots of mojo to your family, Sisoon.


Take up your space (and do it well).

"That's the thing about pain, it demands to be felt."


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jo2love
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Default  Posted: 4:46 PM, January 18th (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((Son)))

Sending prayers, mojo, and good thoughts. Please keep us updated.


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cayc
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Default  Posted: 5:01 PM, January 18th (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

My appendix burst when I was 21 and living in Vienna Austria (think I spoke some bad German at best, family on another continent, my home country insurance that wasn't really set up to deal with out of country care) and as they were wheeling me into the ER the nurse was asking me questions that seemed necessary but that I couldn't answer (eg how much did I weigh, I had no clue!).

Anywho, I now have a big Eastern European scar on my abdomen because they rally had to get in there to get as much of the "poison" out they could. I spent a week in the hospital there & then returned home and spent another week in the hospital because everything got infected inside me. Luckily antibiotics cleared it & no second surgery.

My point is, even if it burst since he's got good medical care he'll be fine. Not a pleasant experience though, I'll give you that. I'm sorry you can't be there at the hospital.

(((Sisoon)))


"I'm not afraid of storms, for I'm learning how to sail my ship." - Louisa May Alcott

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still2suspicious
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Default  Posted: 5:06 PM, January 18th (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((son)))

Sending mojo. I am sorry you can't be for him.


Me: BS
Him: WH
DDay: LTEA

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turtle72
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Default  Posted: 5:09 PM, January 18th (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((Sisoon and son)))


Me: 41 BS/WW/BS
2 kids 9 & 11, 3 steps 20, 8 and 3
BS 1st DDay 10/14/08, 5 mo. PA w/ MOW
WW 2nd D-Day 3/22/10, my exit A with HS BF
Separated 4/19/10
Married H #2 10/8/11
BS latest Dday 12/28/13 - PA w/ single COW

Posts: 2207 | Registered: Nov 2008 | From: Massachusetts
sisoon
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Default  Posted: 6:53 PM, January 18th (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thanks A LOT for you help and thoughts, hugs, prayers.

Per DIL: Laparascopic appendectomy, burst appendix (that's what it was called when I was a kid), all news and indications are good. Doctors confident they got everything out.

Of course, we're still worried, have images of infection ... but it sounds good.

It was done at New York Presbyterian, some of the best med students in the country....

Our hopes and expectations are high.


fBH (me) - 70 (22 in my head), fWW (plainsong) - 65+, Married 45+, together since 1965
DDay - 12/22/2010
Recover'd and R'ed
I share my own experience because it's the only experience I know, not because I'm a good model.

Posts: 10755 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: Chicago area
nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 7:10 PM, January 18th (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Sounds like a great place for him to be, Sisoon.


You can call me NIK

"Keep your face always toward the sunshine - and shadows will fall behind you."
-Walt Whitman


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SisterMilkshake
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Default  Posted: 7:12 PM, January 18th (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Sending lots of mojo to your DS for a speedy and full recovery.

Sending hugs to you and your dear wife, Sisoon.


BW (me) 50ish FWH 50ish
Married 34 years, 3 children
d-day 3/10 LTA (4 yrs./fucking & flirting)

"Oh, why do my actions have consequences?" ~ Homer Simpson
"She knew my one weakness: That I'm weak!" ~ Homer Simpson


Posts: 10084 | Registered: Nov 2010 | From: The Great White North USA
wifehad5
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Default  Posted: 7:46 PM, January 18th (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Sending quick healing thoughts for your son


FBH - 42
FWW - 43 (BrokenRoad)
2 kids 7&12

The people you do your life with shape the life you live


Posts: 37859 | Registered: Jun 2007 | From: Michigan
jo2love
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Default  Posted: 8:17 PM, January 18th (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Sending healing mojo.

Thank you for the update.

[This message edited by SI Staff at 9:43 PM, January 18th (Saturday)]


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simplydevastated
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Default  Posted: 8:18 PM, January 18th (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Sending strength to you and plenty of healing mojo to your son.


Me - BS, 39 (I'm not old...I'm vintage)
Two Wonderful children - DS10, DD7
Married, for now... (4+ D-Day - listed in profile.)

Posts: 5854 | Registered: Jul 2009 | From: In the darkest depths of hell!
Jrazz
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Default  Posted: 9:04 PM, January 18th (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Oh no!! I'm so glad they caught it in time. (Burst yes, but still able to help)

Sending all the good thoughts, prayers, and mojo. To you and the Mrs. too. It's so hard to feel so helpless when it comes to our kids.

(((sisoon)))


"Welcome the rawness of vulnerability as an opportunity to open." - Pema Chodron

Me: BW 35
Crazz: WH 33
Daughter: 4.5 Going on 16


Posts: 18683 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: California
SoVerySadNow
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Default  Posted: 9:37 PM, January 18th (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Sending additional mojo for quick healing and little, if any infection. Good hospital to end up in.


Me:BW
Him:WH
D-day(s),after years of TT and Gaslighting was Labor Day Weekend 2012, continuing for a week after. *Dammit! More TT 3/9/13
Really trending toward D- planning about it is my "happy place" now.

Posts: 1292 | Registered: Sep 2012 | From: Sunny Florida
Sad in AZ
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Default  Posted: 12:25 AM, January 19th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Yes; Presbyterian Hospital is one of the best. I have first-hand knowledge of this. He's in good hands.

Sending any medical mojo he needs


Hallelujah! Holy shit! Where's the tylenol?

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