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sparkle09 posted 1/18/2014 15:02 PM

My H is calling the OW fiancé to expose her trying to blackmail my H for his job along with sending him the recorded phone conversation of her planning all this!! He may lose his job but he says he doesn't care. It's the right thing to do I know in my heart it is. This bitch thinks she can mess with ppls lives! I had to take a kolonopin to deal with this!!

PurpleLilac posted 1/18/2014 15:53 PM

[This message edited by PurpleLilac at 11:48 AM, February 22nd (Saturday)]

sparkle09 posted 1/18/2014 16:11 PM

He didnt answer so my H text him the recording and the threatening text she sent. He has not heard back.

sparkle09 posted 1/19/2014 06:15 AM

Ok her fiancé finally responded after I text him and said. Thank you I did get the recording I will take it from here. There is no need to contact me again. Ugh do you think it's her? He is a very macho matter a fact guy from last time I talked to him so I don't know should I tell him I would like to hear you say it so I know it's not OW or leave it alone?

simplydevastated posted 1/19/2014 06:22 AM

She sounds like a real piece of work. I'm glad your husband outed her. You bring up a valid point about not knowing of it's her. Does your husband have something else he could give the fiancé and deliver it in a way that you know it's him? Just a thought. Good luck.

PurpleLilac posted 1/19/2014 06:49 AM

[This message edited by PurpleLilac at 11:48 AM, February 22nd (Saturday)]

shatteredapart posted 1/20/2014 05:25 AM

Thinking of you. I hope he really got it and you can find a way to verify it. It's hard living in limbo.

spond posted 1/20/2014 06:15 AM

Ugh do you think it's her? He is a very macho matter a fact guy from last time I talked to him so I don't know should I tell him I would like to hear you say it so I know it's not OW or leave it alone?

I would either text him again and just say, "Hey I just want to hear you say it" or call him from another number & verify he got it.

With a text message there is no guarantee that he received it on the other end. She could have intercepted it and just replied back and deleted it.

sparkle09 posted 1/20/2014 08:31 AM

So my H is calling his boss this morning to reveal the affair and try to cover his ass. Since H told her fiancé the truth who knows what she is going to run to HR and say she is crazy.

Skan posted 1/20/2014 11:59 AM

Wise idea since she may run to HR sobbing and claiming sexual harassment. He needs to get there first and get the story told.

sparkle09 posted 1/20/2014 17:24 PM

So my H boss said he would do what he could to protect him AND he has been in the exact same situation (wtf) years ago and he is happy he manned up and came forward first. The issue is this is just his manager once HR gets their hands on this it is out of his control.

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