Well mine is over a year since DDay and it took me a year before I came here, so I'm new too. I came her because I was dealing with it totally on my own, no one I could talk to etc. WW still doesn't want to talk about it, just wants me to get over it, by myself. Get over it? Yea, I know how hard that can be!
Anyway, I sometimes wonder if "just found" out is really correct, or perhaps, it should be still dealing with affair? On SI I don't know where to go after "just found out"??? Seems there is nothing to move on too until you are done dealing with affair.
"Just found out" is, sure all would agree, is worse stage because of intense emotional turmoil. But if affair is ongoing or if BS is still dealing with "just found out" emotional strain, then this feels the right spot. I mean, you still have same emotional strain eaven if you have become more numb to it. Anyways, welcome!
And if anyone else can definitively answers this, or where is better to post after "just found out" I would appreciate it as I'm hesitant to post here anymore since I've been dealing with @!!! for over a year and feel I shouldn't respond to others when I'm still dealing with much the same issues!