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staystrong25 posted 1/19/2014 09:43 AM

Should I contact the other woman? She was someone I considered my best friend but betrayed me and had an affair with my husband. I never got to tell her how I feel or just tell her off. I am still very bitter towards her, especially since she feels she is better then me now. Should I just let it be? I feel the need to get her back.

[This message edited by staystrong25 at 10:57 AM, January 19th (Sunday)]

catlover50 posted 1/19/2014 11:11 AM

I would advise against it. She could really be hurtful to you; she clearly is not a nice person.

Ultimately what does a person like that matter? Her opinion means nothing. Stop letting her take up head space and focus on more positive things.

jjct posted 1/19/2014 11:15 AM

Advise against it too.
In the ICR forums, there's a thread for you called:
"Double Betrayal"

http://survivinginfidelity.com/forums.asp?tid=512858

I'm so sorry. Please take care of yourself.
hugs

Lola88 posted 1/19/2014 11:16 AM

She was never your best friend or even a good friend as she couldn't have done what she did if she was.

Sending strength, hugs and wishes for genuine friends to you (((staystrong25))) - you deserve better than her!

aero1122 posted 1/19/2014 20:07 PM

I also contemplated contacting the OW and decided against it. She is a low life who is not worth your time or thoughts. She obviously was not a real friend if she betrayed you like this.
Stay strong (((hugs)))