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mof2 (original poster member #40287) posted at 5:44 PM on Sunday, January 19th, 2014
I posted this in the Divorce/Separation forum, but felt like I needed to post this for those who just found out as well.
I read this earlier and really felt like I needed to share it with all of you. In the beginning, I felt worthless and "what did I do wrong". This made me smile
"You don't need anyone's affection or approval in order to be good enough. When someone rejects or abandons or judges you, it isn't actually about you. It's about them and their own insecurities, limitations, and needs, and you don't have to internalize that. Your worth isn't contingent upon other people's acceptance of you - it's something inherent. You exist, and therefore, you matter, You're allowed to voice your thoughts and feelings. You're allowed to assert your needs and take up space. You're allowed to hold onto the truth that who you are is exactly enough. And you're allowed to remove anyone from your life who makes you feel otherwise."
Everybody have a happy Sunday and remember that the person who abandoned you does not determine your worth.
BW - Me 43
WH - Cheating Swine 43
Dday - February 12, 2013....a week before I was to give birth to the child I miscarried and 12 days before our 5th anniversary.
shiloe ( member #1224) posted at 6:09 PM on Sunday, January 19th, 2014
Good post. Thanks for reminding all of us hurting BS's. 
But remember, good love is hard to find . . -Tom Petty and the Heartbreakers
BS - 58 Dday 03/2011
Cheater -58 Married 26 yrs
DD - 23 DD -21 DS-19
A#1 2000 with married ho-worker/neighbor ow#1
A#2 2007-? OW#2 LTA- new MCOW D-2/17
lostandhopless ( member #41568) posted at 6:55 PM on Sunday, January 19th, 2014
Be careful who you trust. Even your shadow will abandon you when it's dark.....
Divorced 6/13/14
absolut ( member #37933) posted at 7:22 AM on Monday, January 20th, 2014
EB1541 ( member #42143) posted at 2:06 AM on Wednesday, January 22nd, 2014
Thanks for sharing this! It's a good reminder to everyone who is hurting!
D-day Jan. 2, 2014
Just married Nov. 3, 2013
My age: 23 his age:27
One wonderful son together
FaithnMe ( new member #42244) posted at 3:06 PM on Friday, March 7th, 2014
Wanted to bump this..
Found it so fitting for me today, and knew this could be uplifting to others!! 
mof2 (original poster member #40287) posted at 3:29 PM on Friday, March 7th, 2014
((((Faith))))
It just made my day that this could help you today. Keep your chin up and please hang in there and focus on you and your sweet baby! It will get better....I promise! 
BW - Me 43
WH - Cheating Swine 43
Dday - February 12, 2013....a week before I was to give birth to the child I miscarried and 12 days before our 5th anniversary.
Breezy150 ( member #42421) posted at 4:47 PM on Friday, March 7th, 2014
Thank you so much for posting this. I need to print it out and read it everyday.
I am so disappointed when a liar's pants don't actually start on fire.
BS me 41
WH 42 his whore was my friend
Married 24 years
Finally finding R?
3 kids 3 grand kids
DDay 1 -Jan 2 2014
DDay 2 -Feb 20 2014 A went underground fo
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