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User Topic: Celebrating D Day 4th anniversary
timeforchange
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Default  Posted: 1:26 PM, January 19th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

The day that changed my world was 4 years ago today.

Tonight I am raising my glass to myself and my boys and our new life.

We survived and thrived big time 😀😀😀😀

I decided on D day that I would not reconcile... Best decision I ever took.

Life 4 years ago was full of emotional and physical abuse. And a deep sadness and unhappiness.

His A was my golden ticket to a wonderful life.

My home is now full of happiness, laughter and love.

My kids are great and have thanked me for giving them a happy home and family to live in.

I am in love with a wonderful, kind, respectful man who I met nearly a year go on match.com.

Life is full of joy and that deserves a little celebration tonight.


Me = BS aged 43
2 boys, 13 and 9
DDay 1/19/10
Confronted him 2/16/10
Finally Divorced 8/29/12

“We must let go of the life we have planned, so as to accept the one that is waiting for us.”


Posts: 726 | Registered: Feb 2010 | From: Expats in Europe
nowiknow23
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Member # 33226
Default  Posted: 1:29 PM, January 19th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Fantastic post, honey. Raising a glass to you and your boys as well.


You can call me NIK

"Keep your face always toward the sunshine - and shadows will fall behind you."
-Walt Whitman


Posts: 26166 | Registered: Aug 2011
phmh
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Member # 34146
Default  Posted: 2:11 PM, January 19th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

So happy for you!

I saw someone here once call their anniversary of D-Day their reversary -- for reversing all the damage that was done by being with a cheater. I've always liked that thought.

Congrats on making some delicious lemonade out of those lemons you married.


Me: BW, divorced, now fabulous and happy!

Married: 11 years, no kids

Character is destiny


Posts: 3474 | Registered: Dec 2011
persevere
♀ 31468
Member # 31468
Default  Posted: 5:01 PM, January 19th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Nice! Here's to you timeforchange! (insert lifting glass here)


Me: BW-44
Him: XWH-44
Together 9 yrs
DDays: 1/10/2011
Status: Divorced 4/27/11

Above all, be the heroine, not the victim. - Nora Ephron

It is our choices...that show what we truly are, far more than our abilities.
- J. K. Rowling


Posts: 4668 | Registered: Mar 2011 | From: Texas
PhoenixRisen
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Default  Posted: 8:17 PM, January 19th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Love the "golden ticket" analogy

Posts: 504 | Registered: Jun 2012
Bluebird26
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Default  Posted: 4:33 AM, January 20th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Love the positive update. Glad life has turned around for you.


"Loving someone should not mean losing you. Love empowers you. It shouldn't erase you. - Thelma Davis.

Posts: 1376 | Registered: Aug 2012 | From: Australia
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