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User Topic: Celebrating D Day 4th anniversary
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Member # 27454
Default  Posted: 1:26 PM, January 19th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

The day that changed my world was 4 years ago today.

Tonight I am raising my glass to myself and my boys and our new life.

We survived and thrived big time 😀😀😀😀

I decided on D day that I would not reconcile... Best decision I ever took.

Life 4 years ago was full of emotional and physical abuse. And a deep sadness and unhappiness.

His A was my golden ticket to a wonderful life.

My home is now full of happiness, laughter and love.

My kids are great and have thanked me for giving them a happy home and family to live in.

I am in love with a wonderful, kind, respectful man who I met nearly a year go on

Life is full of joy and that deserves a little celebration tonight.

Me = BS aged 43
2 boys, 13 and 9
DDay 1/19/10
Confronted him 2/16/10
Finally Divorced 8/29/12

“We must let go of the life we have planned, so as to accept the one that is waiting for us.”

Posts: 726 | Registered: Feb 2010 | From: Expats in Europe
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Member # 33226
Default  Posted: 1:29 PM, January 19th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Fantastic post, honey. Raising a glass to you and your boys as well.

You can call me NIK

This is it. The darkest day. The blackest hour. Chin up, shoulders back. Let's see what we're made of, you and I.
― The Doctor

Posts: 36865 | Registered: Aug 2011
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Default  Posted: 2:11 PM, January 19th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

So happy for you!

I saw someone here once call their anniversary of D-Day their reversary -- for reversing all the damage that was done by being with a cheater. I've always liked that thought.

Congrats on making some delicious lemonade out of those lemons you married.

Me: BW, divorced, now fabulous and happy!

Married: 11 years, no kids

Character is destiny

Posts: 4032 | Registered: Dec 2011
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Member # 31468
Default  Posted: 5:01 PM, January 19th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Nice! Here's to you timeforchange! (insert lifting glass here)

Me: BW-45
Him: XWH-45

Status: D 2011

Above all, be the heroine, not the victim. - Nora Ephron

It is our choices...that show what we truly are, far more than our abilities.
- J. K. Rowling

Posts: 5163 | Registered: Mar 2011
Member # 35912
Default  Posted: 8:17 PM, January 19th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Love the "golden ticket" analogy

Posts: 543 | Registered: Jun 2012
♀ 36445
Member # 36445
Default  Posted: 4:33 AM, January 20th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Love the positive update. Glad life has turned around for you.

Me: BW

Best thing I gained in my divorce - my freedom.

Life's good.

Posts: 1530 | Registered: Aug 2012 | From: Australia
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