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User Topic: Celebrating D Day 4th anniversary
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Member # 27454
Default  Posted: 1:26 PM, January 19th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

The day that changed my world was 4 years ago today.

Tonight I am raising my glass to myself and my boys and our new life.

We survived and thrived big time 😀😀😀😀

I decided on D day that I would not reconcile... Best decision I ever took.

Life 4 years ago was full of emotional and physical abuse. And a deep sadness and unhappiness.

His A was my golden ticket to a wonderful life.

My home is now full of happiness, laughter and love.

My kids are great and have thanked me for giving them a happy home and family to live in.

I am in love with a wonderful, kind, respectful man who I met nearly a year go on

Life is full of joy and that deserves a little celebration tonight.

Me = BS aged 43
2 boys, 13 and 9
DDay 1/19/10
Confronted him 2/16/10
Finally Divorced 8/29/12

“We must let go of the life we have planned, so as to accept the one that is waiting for us.”

Posts: 726 | Registered: Feb 2010 | From: Expats in Europe
♀ 33226
Member # 33226
Default  Posted: 1:29 PM, January 19th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Fantastic post, honey. Raising a glass to you and your boys as well.

You can call me NIK

And never grow a wishbone, daughter, where your backbone ought to be.
― Sarah McMane

Posts: 40249 | Registered: Aug 2011
♀ 34146
Member # 34146
Default  Posted: 2:11 PM, January 19th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

So happy for you!

I saw someone here once call their anniversary of D-Day their reversary -- for reversing all the damage that was done by being with a cheater. I've always liked that thought.

Congrats on making some delicious lemonade out of those lemons you married.

Me: BW, divorced, now fabulous and happy!

Married: 11 years, no kids

Character is destiny

Posts: 4472 | Registered: Dec 2011
♀ 31468
Member # 31468
Default  Posted: 5:01 PM, January 19th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Nice! Here's to you timeforchange! (insert lifting glass here)

Me: BW-46
Him: XWH-46

Status: D 2011
Remarried to a kind and wonderful man - 2017

Above all, be the heroine, not the victim. - Nora Ephron

It is our choices...that show what we truly are, far more than our abilities.
- J. K.

Posts: 5287 | Registered: Mar 2011
Member # 35912
Default  Posted: 8:17 PM, January 19th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Love the "golden ticket" analogy

Posts: 543 | Registered: Jun 2012
♀ 36445
Member # 36445
Default  Posted: 4:33 AM, January 20th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Love the positive update. Glad life has turned around for you.

Me: BW

Best thing I gained in my divorce - my freedom.

Life's good.

Posts: 1530 | Registered: Aug 2012 | From: Australia
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