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User Topic: To those who post in Jfo, d/s, etc.
mixedemotions
♀ 35810
Member # 35810
Default  Posted: 5:15 PM, January 19th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

You're awesome. Thanks for pulling the weight that I'm leaving to rest for a while longer. I tried and it was still too triggery for me...but I remember how immensely supported I felt in those forums, so thank you for doing what you do!


Me: Former BW, 28
Divorced 10/11/12
He didn't show up for the D...very fitting, seeing as he didn't show up for the M, either : )
"What did not demolish me simply polished me, now the clearer I can see" - India Arie

Posts: 388 | Registered: Jun 2012 | From: Back in the Southeast!
nowiknow23
♀ 33226
Member # 33226
Default  Posted: 9:08 PM, January 19th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((mixedemotions)))


You can call me NIK

This is it. The darkest day. The blackest hour. Chin up, shoulders back. Let's see what we're made of, you and I.
― The Doctor


Posts: 36402 | Registered: Aug 2011
SBB
♀ 35229
Member # 35229
Default  Posted: 6:44 AM, January 20th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Posting responses helps me far more than the poster. Its amazing what connections I am able to make in my own situation when looking at someone else's situation.


I may have reached a point where I'd piss on him if he was on fire.... eventually!!

Posts: 5961 | Registered: Apr 2012 | From: Australia
curiouswiz
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Member # 34405
Default  Posted: 7:45 AM, January 20th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I am so afraid to go into JFO. General triggers me. So, yeah, thanks folks. I hope to be able to help in the future. I tried to be helpful in the early months but now find it much too painful for me at this time.


God bless us, everyone.

Posts: 633 | Registered: Jan 2012 | From: Boston
risingfromashes
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Member # 3903
Default  Posted: 2:20 PM, January 20th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Just started. I think it is another step forward for me. I understand the pain but I no longer am always actively feeling it.


There is a wonderful life on the other side of hell.

Posts: 2029 | Registered: Mar 2004
ProbableIceCream
♂ 37468
Member # 37468
Default  Posted: 4:15 PM, January 20th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Is it weird that I don't 'trigger' from reading stuff? I might get mad or sad but that's about it.

(I understand triggers; I'm working on some triggers that I DO have, unrelated to infidelity so far, in therapy/with EMDR.)


Posts: 881 | Registered: Nov 2012
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