Topic: To those who post in Jfo, d/s, etc.
Member # 35810
| Posted: 5:15 PM, January 19th (Sunday), 2014|
You're awesome. Thanks for pulling the weight that I'm leaving to rest for a while longer. I tried and it was still too triggery for me...but I remember how immensely supported I felt in those forums, so thank you for doing what you do!
Me: Former BW, 28
He didn't show up for the D...very fitting, seeing as he didn't show up for the M, either : )
"What did not demolish me simply polished me, now the clearer I can see" - India Arie
Posts: 382 | Registered: Jun 2012 | From: Back in the Southeast!
Member # 33226
| Posted: 9:08 PM, January 19th (Sunday), 2014|
You can call me NIK
"Keep your face always toward the sunshine - and shadows will fall behind you."
Posts: 26192 | Registered: Aug 2011
Member # 35229
| Posted: 6:44 AM, January 20th (Monday), 2014|
Posting responses helps me far more than the poster. Its amazing what connections I am able to make in my own situation when looking at someone else's situation.
I may have reached a point where I'd piss on him if he was on fire.... eventually!!
Posts: 5658 | Registered: Apr 2012 | From: Australia
Member # 34405
| Posted: 7:45 AM, January 20th (Monday), 2014|
I am so afraid to go into JFO. General triggers me. So, yeah, thanks folks. I hope to be able to help in the future. I tried to be helpful in the early months but now find it much too painful for me at this time.
God bless us, everyone.
Posts: 633 | Registered: Jan 2012 | From: Boston
Member # 3903
| Posted: 2:20 PM, January 20th (Monday), 2014|
Just started. I think it is another step forward for me. I understand the pain but I no longer am always actively feeling it.
There is a wonderful life on the other side of hell.
Posts: 1713 | Registered: Mar 2004
Member # 37468
| Posted: 4:15 PM, January 20th (Monday), 2014|
Is it weird that I don't 'trigger' from reading stuff? I might get mad or sad but that's about it.
(I understand triggers; I'm working on some triggers that I DO have, unrelated to infidelity so far, in therapy/with EMDR.)
Me, 32. DD, 8. DS, 6 (deceased).
Posts: 846 | Registered: Nov 2012
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