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Topic: To those who post in Jfo, d/s, etc.

mixedemotions
♀ 35810
Member # 35810

Posted: 5:15 PM, January 19th (Sunday), 2014

You're awesome. Thanks for pulling the weight that I'm leaving to rest for a while longer. I tried and it was still too triggery for me...but I remember how immensely supported I felt in those forums, so thank you for doing what you do!

Me: Former BW, 28
Divorced 10/11/12
He didn't show up for the D...very fitting, seeing as he didn't show up for the M, either : )
"What did not demolish me simply polished me, now the clearer I can see" - India Arie

Posts: 386 | Registered: Jun 2012 | From: Back in the Southeast!

nowiknow23
♀ 33226
Member # 33226

Posted: 9:08 PM, January 19th (Sunday), 2014

(((mixedemotions)))

You can call me NIK

“The most difficult times for many of us are the ones we give ourselves.”
― Pema Chödrön

Posts: 28408 | Registered: Aug 2011

SBB
♀ 35229
Member # 35229

Posted: 6:44 AM, January 20th (Monday), 2014

Posting responses helps me far more than the poster. Its amazing what connections I am able to make in my own situation when looking at someone else's situation.

I may have reached a point where I'd piss on him if he was on fire.... eventually!!

Posts: 5848 | Registered: Apr 2012 | From: Australia

curiouswiz
♀ 34405
Member # 34405

Posted: 7:45 AM, January 20th (Monday), 2014

I am so afraid to go into JFO. General triggers me. So, yeah, thanks folks. I hope to be able to help in the future. I tried to be helpful in the early months but now find it much too painful for me at this time.

God bless us, everyone.

Posts: 633 | Registered: Jan 2012 | From: Boston

risingfromashes
♀ 3903
Member # 3903

Posted: 2:20 PM, January 20th (Monday), 2014

Just started. I think it is another step forward for me. I understand the pain but I no longer am always actively feeling it.

There is a wonderful life on the other side of hell.

Posts: 1800 | Registered: Mar 2004

ProbableIceCream
♂ 37468
Member # 37468

Posted: 4:15 PM, January 20th (Monday), 2014

Is it weird that I don't 'trigger' from reading stuff? I might get mad or sad but that's about it.

(I understand triggers; I'm working on some triggers that I DO have, unrelated to infidelity so far, in therapy/with EMDR.)

Me, 32. DD, 8. DS, 6 (deceased).

Posts: 866 | Registered: Nov 2012

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