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mixedemotions (original poster member #35810) posted at 11:15 PM on Sunday, January 19th, 2014
You're awesome. Thanks for pulling the weight that I'm leaving to rest for a while longer. I tried and it was still too triggery for me...but I remember how immensely supported I felt in those forums, so thank you for doing what you do!
Me: Former BW, 28
Divorced 10/11/12
He didn't show up for the D...very fitting, seeing as he didn't show up for the M, either : )
"What did not demolish me simply polished me, now the clearer I can see" - India Arie
nowiknow23 ( member #33226) posted at 3:08 AM on Monday, January 20th, 2014
You can call me NIK
And never grow a wishbone, daughter, where your backbone ought to be.
― Sarah McMane
SBB ( member #35229) posted at 12:44 PM on Monday, January 20th, 2014
Posting responses helps me far more than the poster. Its amazing what connections I am able to make in my own situation when looking at someone else's situation.
I may have reached a point where I'd piss on him if he was on fire.... eventually!!
curiouswiz ( member #34405) posted at 1:45 PM on Monday, January 20th, 2014
I am so afraid to go into JFO. General triggers me. So, yeah, thanks folks. I hope to be able to help in the future. I tried to be helpful in the early months but now find it much too painful for me at this time.
risingfromashes ( member #3903) posted at 8:20 PM on Monday, January 20th, 2014
Just started. I think it is another step forward for me. I understand the pain but I no longer am always actively feeling it.
ProbableIceCream ( member #37468) posted at 10:15 PM on Monday, January 20th, 2014
Is it weird that I don't 'trigger' from reading stuff? I might get mad or sad but that's about it.
(I understand triggers; I'm working on some triggers that I DO have, unrelated to infidelity so far, in therapy/with EMDR.)
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