When does it stop.
Background my AP exWWS was one of my closest friends. our families did everything together. When the children were younger.hers especially
Of course when she found out about me and the AP well ...
Now other part is my BH started conversations with her after, and she was interested in persuing a sexual relationship with my BH for revenge purposes. Neither one of them saw it as wrong when I found out about the planning and saw the emails. Thought they were justified.
So in the end my BH made a no contact with her. Well she broke it on his BDAY.
Well her dad died last week, I sent a mssg when I heard her dad was not doing well, just prayers and strength.( probably shouldn't but myself I would of appreciated, maybe boundary issues there?)
Wel my BH just text and asked if I knew and I said yep last week he died, a mutual girlfriend had told me, I said I had mssg her and that he should too, he couldn't believe I would say that. HER DAD DIED! I am not a total fucking bitch whore slut, I am not.
Its a reminder to him that neither one of us can talk to her, the feeling I'm trying to work on, is. How it must feel for my BH to not be able to be free to just talk to her because of what I did
What I did too her and the fact I can't offer her a hug and support she will need because of my stupidity.
And the other is being pissed that I am being blamed for him not being able to talk to her because of what he did is my fault.
Its just a big fricken poo mess, When does the fallout stop! or add more poo to the pile.
All I want to do is give her a hug. Its her DAD!