STEPHEN VINCENT BENÉT:
Thank you for the responses.
WarpSpeed, there was a time when I thought things were starting to look up. I had hope and didn't want to see that I was the only one doing the real work.
When things are going well, he uses a lot of "I" statements.
When he feels like things aren't going his way because of a situation he created, "we" have a problem.
He takes credit even when he shouldn't and fails to take ownership when he should.
He says that I should be completely honest about how I feel but his body language and facial expressions speak loud and clear. Either he doesn't want to listen or if he does, that he doesn't like what he's hearing. He will sometimes say, "Yeah-yeah-yeah," and wave his hand like he wants to be rid of a stink in the air. He is rude.
He gets treated badly by his relatives and never defends himself. It's like he has a tail between his legs.
When it comes to me, he unleashes all his emotional force. Mad dog.
We thought, because we had power, we had wisdom.
He no longer f****s so I no longer cook. :)