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User Topic: The Incredible Genius of Sir Shagalot
Ellejay
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Member # 30498
Default  Posted: 6:58 AM, January 21st (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

This is what my ex-H (Sir Shagalot) had posted on his facebook page. Why Nasa haven't asked him to join the space program I just can't imagine:


Ellejay


Married 25 years now divorced.
D-Day: 20/11/10
Me: 48.5 plus 10% GST
Him: mental age 6 (apologies to all 6 year olds)
Betrayal: Who cares anymore?

Posts: 1096 | Registered: Dec 2010 | From: Adelaide, South Australia
nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 7:08 AM, January 21st (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Oh for fuck's sake.


You can call me NIK

"If you carry joy in your heart, you can heal any moment."
- Carlos Santana


Posts: 26153 | Registered: Aug 2011
Want To Wake Up
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Default  Posted: 7:09 AM, January 21st (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

**passes Ellejay a large wrench**


Me 54
WH 54
Met 1978
Married 1981
DDay 2009
Latest TT... Nov 2013 (yep, 2013... not a typo!)
"Adultery is not a symptom of a struggling marriage....a struggling marriage is a result of a person who can chose adultery."- saw this on SI

Posts: 478 | Registered: Mar 2011
Holly-Isis
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Default  Posted: 7:18 AM, January 21st (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Guess he's posting about the current OW.


"Being in love" first moved them to promise fidelity: this quieter love enables them to keep the promise. *CS Lewis*

Posts: 11275 | Registered: Jan 2007 | From: Just a fool in limbo
JessicaFL127
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Default  Posted: 7:33 AM, January 21st (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Ugh. I'd be tempted to comment "That IS so sad. I hope they cure you soon." Ass. Maybe you should block him, it is blissful.


BW,32
divorced for 6 years
mom to two awesome boys,10 and 9

"But you said your vows, and you closed the door
On so many men who would have loved you more" -Cath, DCFC

"The most amazing things can come from some terrible lies"


Posts: 1244 | Registered: Dec 2009 | From: Missouri
solus sto
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Default  Posted: 7:39 AM, January 21st (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Oh, what a pathetic tool.

Trac-Fone uses Facebook for paranoid diatribes about the administration.

I have him blocked, but the really nutso ones, my daughter shares. It seems as though everyone must have him blocked now, because are generally limited to ones from my sociopath nephew. One mutual acquaintance, though, recently posted to him, "You don't get out much, do you?" Bwah.


BS-me, 52
WH (Trac-fone), 53, PD
2 kids-DD25, DS18
multiple d-days
DIVORCING
Alone, most strangely, I live on~Rupert Brooke

Posts: 9019 | Registered: Jan 2011 | From: midwest
SisterMilkshake
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Default  Posted: 7:39 AM, January 21st (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

**passes Ellejay a 2x4**
**passes Ellejay a large wrench**
Hilarious! I assume the irony just goes right over his head.


BW (me) 50ish FWH 50ish
Married 34 years, 3 children
d-day 3/10 LTA (4 yrs./fucking & flirting)

"Oh, why do my actions have consequences?" ~ Homer Simpson
"She knew my one weakness: That I'm weak!" ~ Homer Simpson


Posts: 9952 | Registered: Nov 2010 | From: The Great White North USA
DeadMumWalking
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Default  Posted: 10:44 AM, January 21st (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

"You could be a fucking idiot and not know it."


Me (BS), Him (WH): early 50's
3 DS: teens!!! :)
M: 25 (19 1/2 at Dday), Together 30
Dday: Dec 2008
Limbo-ish, again (after multiple S) -- weighing my options

Posts: 2659 | Registered: Aug 2009 | From: EU
Lovedyoumore
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Default  Posted: 10:47 AM, January 21st (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Now I know he does not need to be with your children. Bless you.


Me 52
WH 52
Married 30+ years
Together trying to R

I tell people I am tired but really my heart is broken and I am sad.


Posts: 1584 | Registered: May 2012 | From: Southern, bless your heart
Brandon808
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Default  Posted: 10:52 AM, January 21st (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

He's so stupid he doesn't even realize how stupid he is.


xBH
D final 8/2012

Posts: 4082 | Registered: May 2012 | From: southeast
sinsof thefather
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Default  Posted: 11:58 AM, January 21st (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

53% won't repost this because they don't know how to copy and paste

Er...no. I'd say the 53% who don't repost this don't do it because they are just too busy laughing at the 47% of idjuts who did.

[This message edited by sinsof thefather at 11:58 AM, January 21st (Tuesday)]


...second star to the right and straight on till morning.

Posts: 1893 | Registered: Aug 2010 | From: UK
Ostrich80
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Default  Posted: 12:19 PM, January 21st (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I would assume this is when ellejay WANTS a 2x4 from her SI peeps


BS..me
WS..him
Been with him over half my life
4kid
DD1 10-01-09 DD2 02-12-12 discovered it never ended
OW..nothing special. Just your average skank
Status..#$%@????

Posts: 5238 | Registered: Feb 2012 | From: midwest
StillStanding1
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Default  Posted: 12:34 PM, January 21st (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

**passes Ellejay a large wrench**

**passes Ellejay a 2x4**

"You could be a fucking idiot and not know it."

I'd say the 53% who don't repost this don't do it because they are just too busy laughing at the 47% of idjuts who did.


There's really nothing left for me to say. Except... I love everyone here. Hilarious.


Me: 40s BS, Him: 40s WH
M 21 yrs - 3 teens
LTA = 2+ yrs, Dday = 2/10/13, he moved out, he officially moved back in 1/25/14 and our work continues...

Posts: 737 | Registered: Aug 2013 | From: MidWest
Blobette
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Default  Posted: 1:11 PM, January 21st (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Just put it on your own status.


BS (me): 50
WS: 50
Married: 26 yrs
Kids: 2
OW: Co-worker, 7 yr LTA
DD 8/1/2012, Working on R

Posts: 1061 | Registered: Aug 2012
Cookie7088
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Default  Posted: 2:40 PM, January 21st (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Hmmmm...as crass as this may be but...

"You could be a fucking idiot and not know it."

I have never been known as a "fucking idiot"...but I've been known to "fuck an idiot"....

I just got smart, and divorced his ass!

[This message edited by Cookie7088 at 2:42 PM, January 21st (Tuesday)]


Posts: 673 | Registered: Nov 2010 | From: U.S.
Ellejay
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Default  Posted: 3:44 PM, January 21st (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I have him blocked but occasionally a mutual friend will be so outraged by what they see on his FB they can't help but tell me. There was another one recently which he obviously thought was hilarious and re-posted to his home page. This one I have quietly given to my lawyer and the local police:


"Re-post this if you know someone who is still alive only because you can't afford a hit-man"

Bear in mind this is a man who has received several death threats himself from OW2's BH and family members.

I go numb sometimes trying to figure out his stupidity.

Ellejay

[This message edited by Ellejay at 3:47 PM, January 21st (Tuesday)]


Married 25 years now divorced.
D-Day: 20/11/10
Me: 48.5 plus 10% GST
Him: mental age 6 (apologies to all 6 year olds)
Betrayal: Who cares anymore?

Posts: 1096 | Registered: Dec 2010 | From: Adelaide, South Australia
Kajem
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Default  Posted: 4:24 PM, January 21st (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Ellejay, has he been hanging out with my XH's NW ? She had the same status over the weekend!

Nice to know she can copy and paste. But then I already knew that!

((((((Ellejay)))))) take your brain somewhere else for a bit-away from him and his craziness.


I trust you is a better compliment than I love you, because you may not trust the person you love, but you can always love the person you trust. - Unknown
Relationships are like sharing a book, it doesn't work if you're not on the same page.

Posts: 5528 | Registered: Jul 2012 | From: Florida
Ellejay
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Member # 30498
Default  Posted: 4:30 PM, January 21st (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I can't wait for his next epithany. Just another one for the book I guess.



Married 25 years now divorced.
D-Day: 20/11/10
Me: 48.5 plus 10% GST
Him: mental age 6 (apologies to all 6 year olds)
Betrayal: Who cares anymore?

Posts: 1096 | Registered: Dec 2010 | From: Adelaide, South Australia
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