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Topic: How was your morning commute?

lynnm1947
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Posted: 7:54 AM, January 21st (Tuesday), 2014

So.....I was assaulted on the subway this morning. Got up preparatory to getting off at Yonge, needed to hold a pole because let's face it, my balance isn't what it used to be, when the driver decides to slam on the brakes. Hoodied young man leaning on the pole took umbrage at my reaching behind him to grab the pole, shoved me, then whacked my wrist, all the time yelling for me to get my "f'ing hands off him" and calling me very rude names. And how was your commute?

Age: 64..ummmmmmm, no...............65....no...oh, hell born in 1947. You figure it out!

"I could have missed the pain, but I would have had to miss the dance." Garth Brooks

Posts: 8720 | Registered: Jul 2007 | From: Toronto, Canada

Deeply Scared
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Member # 2

Posted: 8:04 AM, January 21st (Tuesday), 2014

Oh Lynnm...are you ok?? How terrible!!

"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." My Mom:)

My tolerance for stupid shit is getting less and less.

Posts: 210060 | Registered: May 2002

lynnm1947
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Member # 15300

Posted: 9:33 AM, January 21st (Tuesday), 2014

My hand is a bit swollen but I'm otherwise OK.

He was obviously either mentally ill or in a drug-induced paranoia. After he was finished screaming at me, he took the seat I'd vacated, mumbling to himself, then got up and moved further down the car. Apparently I am very scary. My S/O laughed about this. He said, "OMG, if he only knew that would be like suspecting Gandhi of violence!"

Age: 64..ummmmmmm, no...............65....no...oh, hell born in 1947. You figure it out!

"I could have missed the pain, but I would have had to miss the dance." Garth Brooks

Posts: 8720 | Registered: Jul 2007 | From: Toronto, Canada

SoVerySadNow
♀ 36711
Member # 36711

Posted: 12:06 PM, January 21st (Tuesday), 2014

Awful! I hope you are ok. Take care.

Me:BW
Him:WH
D-day(s),after years of TT and Gaslighting was Labor Day Weekend 2012, continuing for a week after. *Dammit! More TT 3/9/13
Really trending toward D- planning about it is my "happy place" now.

Posts: 1292 | Registered: Sep 2012 | From: Sunny Florida

GabyBaby
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Member # 26928

Posted: 12:12 PM, January 21st (Tuesday), 2014

What the hell is wrong with people?!
Ok, so the guy was (probably) on something and out of his head. Why didn't one of the other passengers step in?!!

I hope you're ok and your hand heals quickly.
((( lynnm1947 )))

Me - 44
DD(23), DS(21, PDD-NOS)

WH#2 (SorryinSac)- Killed himself in our home 6 days after being served divorce docs.
XWH #1 - legally married 18yrs. 12+ OW (that I know of).

I edit often for clarity/typos.

Posts: 9855 | Registered: Dec 2009 | From: Here and There

lynnm1947
♀ 15300
Member # 15300

Posted: 1:19 PM, January 21st (Tuesday), 2014

I think if I had been in any real danger, people would have. Unfortunately the people closest to me were tiny women! He wasn’t a big guy, but he had paranoia on his side.

Age: 64..ummmmmmm, no...............65....no...oh, hell born in 1947. You figure it out!

"I could have missed the pain, but I would have had to miss the dance." Garth Brooks

Posts: 8720 | Registered: Jul 2007 | From: Toronto, Canada

simplydevastated
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Member # 25001

Posted: 1:24 PM, January 21st (Tuesday), 2014

I'm sorry to hear this. I'm glad to hear you're all right and I hope your hand heals quickly.

(((Hugs)))

Me - BS, 40 (I'm not old...I'm vintage)
Two Wonderful children - DS11, DD8
Getting my ducks in a row for divorce... finally (4+ D-Days too many - listed in profile.)

Posts: 6121 | Registered: Jul 2009 | From: In the darkest depths of hell!

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