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How can i be your soulmate when you f%$#& someone else?
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heartbroken2012 posted 1/21/2014 08:41 AM
My WH likes to tell me that I am his soulmate. This was something we said a lot to each other before the A...and I truly believed it. Our meeting was very unlikely.
Then he f&%$^& the OW.
He still says, when we are cuddling etc, that I am his SOULMATE. I dont believe it anymore....
SO my question is how the holy hell can I be your ONE TRUE SOULMATE if you FINALLY found me, then went and fucked someone else at work in the break room? 
WarpSpeed posted 1/21/2014 08:53 AM
What you probably need is actions over words. When his actions consistently make you feel valued, cherished and special then the words might start to resonate again. It might be worth talking to him about that if it fits.
KatieG posted 1/21/2014 08:54 AM
Yeah I am pondering a similar thing with my WBF at the moment.
We are in a period of what seems like "in love" and I am wondering what's real. A matter of months ago he was "in love" with someone else AND told her he thought they were soulmates.
I guess they changed their minds...
k94ever posted 1/21/2014 10:54 AM
Ask him and watch his reaction.
k9