UPDATE - I went to the book club. Met some really nice people. We choose a book that I would never normally read- the Pact by Jodi Picoult. I've started reading it & I'm enjoying it.
I feel at least I've made a start on looking to my new future rather than missing my ex.
I've also started to catch up with old friends & am making sure that I am doing something most weekends.
At the moment I'm feeling pretty good. Hope it lasts