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User Topic: Recycling stages - revisiting lessons
♀ 39551
Member # 39551
Default  Posted: 2:24 PM, January 21st (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Whoo boy. My situation has moved into formal divorce stage finally. Sep agreements, custody, et.

I personally am cycling all over again through the betrayed stages.

I thought I better come back and revisit some of my old posts to follow my path to peace I had just a little bit (a month?) ago.

Waving hi - if you have advice to REfeeling all the hurt, betrayal, sadness, anger, etc. please feel free to give me some direction.

I think this may be a result of a couple other factors too but I'm determined to get through this healthy and sane on the other side. 1) pregnancy hormones and 2) weaning off prozac for baby's sake.

Guidance appreciated. 2x4s too. I am kind of angry at MYSELF for feeling any of this. He isn't worth it. I don't know where its coming from.

Posts: 557 | Registered: Jun 2013
♀ 41441
Member # 41441
Default  Posted: 3:04 PM, January 21st (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Oh gosh I completely went thru the same (except the pregnancy part). As each phase occurred...DDay, in house S, filing D, etc, I recycled through the same emotions. I am not sure why or what we can do about it but wanted you to know that others recycle over and over. Not uncommon. Hoping it will stop soon for us both

Me: Divorced 2012
I know that when I truly love & honor myself I am at my best & most complete; and I will never settle for anything less from myself or from anyone else ever again!

Posts: 460 | Registered: Nov 2013 | From: SWFL
♀ 39551
Member # 39551
Default  Posted: 3:12 PM, January 21st (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Well that sucks! Apparently I wasn't paying attention here well enough. But at least I know I'm not regressing.

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