This is kind of a recoonciliation topic, but because OW is mentioned, I posted in General.
I found out about my H's LTA because the co-worker MOW broke down and told her husband. And her husband called me and told me.
MOW had been "protecting" my H (her AP) by not telling her BS about the affair up until then. When she told, it all hit the fan, so so speak.
She called my husband and told him she would be there for him (in the d-day aftermath). And he told her she had ruined his life and he never wanted to talk to her again.
Now, this is what I wonder Is the No-Contact sort of satisfying to my FWH, in that he is punishing MOW for telling about the LTA?
Don't get me wrong, I am thankful for NC and it was a requirement for our R. But still, I wonder if he is really "showing her". Of course, he thought no one would ever find out about their LTA.
Hope this makes sense. It's hard to explain. Just wonder if I'm weird for wondering this.