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User Topic: I am allowed
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♀ 12802
Member # 12802
Default  Posted: 7:06 PM, January 21st (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

saw this and thought it belonged here .

*I am allowed to be vocal about my pain if it helps me heal

*I am allowed to be sad in places other than my own head

*I am allowed to express my anger/sadness/hurt in ways that do not hurt other people

*I am allowed to speak my truth even when it makes others uncomfortable

*I am allowed to take care of myself, even if it makes people who hurt me uncomfortable

*I am allowed to create my own rules for self-care, as long as it doesn't hurt others who have my best interest at heart.


ka-mai
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Kids on the playground can be so cruel. “Get off the swings you’re like 50, and stop talking about Soundgarden, we don't even know what that is."

Posts: 14937 | Registered: Nov 2006 | From: mercury's underboob
steadfast1973
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Member # 24719
Default  Posted: 7:12 PM, January 21st (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Yes.


Me- 42- BS Him- 38- WH D-day#1 5/25/09 multiples EAs and possibly a PA, trickle truth, d-day#2 11/06/13 Prostitute D-day 3 and 4...
"I've seen your flag on the marble arch, our love is not a victory march, it's a cold and broken hal

Posts: 2301 | Registered: Jul 2009 | From: Kentucky
PhoenixRising88
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Default  Posted: 7:12 PM, January 21st (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

YEPPERS!!!!!

And I would add one:

- I am allowed to not be okay with being treated poorly.

[This message edited by PhoenixRising88 at 7:13 PM, January 21st (Tuesday)]


Me: BS(45)Him: EX, aka "The Dink"(52). D-Day#1 12/22/11. D-Day#2 5/23/13. Divorced 1/10/14.

New chapter of my life- married 11/13/15 to the man I'd thought I would never find.

Throw me to the wolves and I'll return leading the pack.


Posts: 443 | Registered: Apr 2012 | From: North Texas
cl131716
♀ 40699
Member # 40699
Default  Posted: 7:18 PM, January 21st (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I like the sound of that!


Me BS 33
Him WS 37 Trying4change
Together 5 years, married for 3
D-day: 07/23/13 cybersex with COW
D-day: 12/27/13 found out he met and kissed a "friend" in 2011
"A clear and innocent conscience fears nothing."

Posts: 1043 | Registered: Sep 2013 | From: Oklahoma
EB1541
♀ 42143
Member # 42143
Default  Posted: 7:41 PM, January 21st (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thanks! This really hit home for me.


D-day Jan. 2, 2014
Just married Nov. 3, 2013
My age: 23 his age:27
One wonderful son together

Posts: 90 | Registered: Jan 2014 | From: California
Coachdig10
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Member # 41706
Default  Posted: 7:57 PM, January 21st (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I have to keep telling myself these things. I am allowed....


BS- 42
WS- 36
Married 16
Kids- 3
DDay 1/17/13

Posts: 71 | Registered: Dec 2013 | From: California
wifehad5
♂ 15162
Member # 15162
Default  Posted: 8:58 PM, January 21st (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


FBH - 44
FWW - 45 (BrokenRoad)
2 kids 8 & 14

The people you do your life with shape the life you live


Posts: 43183 | Registered: Jun 2007 | From: Michigan
brokendancer7
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Member # 39911
Default  Posted: 9:06 PM, January 21st (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I am allowed to like that post!


Me: BS - 59
Him: WS - 57
Married 35 yrs

Latest DD - April 2013, PA


Posts: 275 | Registered: Jul 2013
Jennifer99
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Default  Posted: 7:47 AM, January 22nd (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I need to print this to keep with me!

Posts: 557 | Registered: Jun 2013
AFrayedKnot
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Member # 36622
Default  Posted: 7:48 AM, January 22nd (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


BS 40
fWS 37 (SurprisinglyOkay)
DD DS
A whole bunch of shit that got a lot worse before it got better.
"Knowing is half the battle"

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