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the past is gone posted 1/21/2014 22:36 PM

I was wondering if anyone has recommendations about what type of MC to go to. I'm not sure if we should go to someone who will "counsel" us in the traditional counseling manner or a counselor who uses a program for couples like IMAGO. Has anyone had this type of counseling? What should I expect in MC? Is it like IC? ugh.... I've been in IC for years... but a little nervous about MC.

Me: BS 52
Him: WS 52
M- 27 yrs.
2 adult kids
d-day#1 2-12-10 d-day #2 1-13-14

Deeply Scared posted 1/22/2014 06:58 AM

I feel it's important to find a counselor that specializes in dealing with infidelity. They need to know the dynamics behind all the heavy emotions that you both are carrying.

This article may help

http://www.survivinginfidelity.com/healing_library/reconciliation/choosing_therapist.asp

I know our therapist spent the first couple of sessions getting to know us and our marriage prior to getting into all the infidelity issues. She wanted to know *us* and our marriage to help better understand and to give us the proper tools and exercises