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SBB (original poster member #35229) posted at 8:03 AM on Wednesday, January 22nd, 2014
Just opened the envelope with the court stamped doc - I've been free since Saturday!
My colleagues cracked open the champers and my girlfriends are planning a freedom party for me on Friday night.
Almost 2 years from DD and 18m from final S. I've been waiting for the papers since October.
Finally!! WOOWHOO!!
I may have reached a point where I'd piss on him if he was on fire.... eventually!!
Nature_Girl ( member #32554) posted at 8:06 AM on Wednesday, January 22nd, 2014
Many, many, many whoops of joy for you!!!!!!!!!!
Me = BS
Him = EX-d out (abusive troglodyte NPD SA)
3 tween-aged kids
Together 20 years
D-Day: Memorial Weekend 2011
2013 - DIVORCED!
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wJgjyDFfJuU
PhantomLimb ( member #39668) posted at 8:31 AM on Wednesday, January 22nd, 2014
dmari ( member #37215) posted at 8:36 AM on Wednesday, January 22nd, 2014
I'm about to go to bed and saw your post! Yeehaw!! I'm so happy that another one of us can officially start their new beginning!! Enjoy your freedom party!
HurtsButImOK ( member #38865) posted at 8:44 AM on Wednesday, January 22nd, 2014
Woooohooooo!
Congratulations.
Its a fucking marvelous day when those papers arrive 
.
Me: Awesome - 35.... ummm, not anymore
"I’ve learned that people will forget what you said, people will forget what you did, but people will never forget how you made them feel". –Maya Angelou
Bluebird26 ( member #36445) posted at 9:30 AM on Wednesday, January 22nd, 2014
Congrats SBB! Here's to your new beginning.
Me: BW
Best thing I gained in my divorce - my freedom.
Life's good.
Amazonia ( member #32810) posted at 11:17 AM on Wednesday, January 22nd, 2014
Congrats!!
"You yourself deserve your love and affection as much as anybody in the universe." -Buddha
"Let's face it, life is a crap shoot." -Sad in AZ
copout ( member #22421) posted at 12:27 PM on Wednesday, January 22nd, 2014
Very nice!! Congratulations!!!!!!!!!!
Your prison is walking through this world all alone.
copout ( member #22421) posted at 12:28 PM on Wednesday, January 22nd, 2014
Very nice!! Congratulations!!!!!!!!!!
Your prison is walking through this world all alone.
nowiknow23 ( member #33226) posted at 1:28 PM on Wednesday, January 22nd, 2014
Woo hoo!!!! Congratulations, honey!
You can call me NIK
And never grow a wishbone, daughter, where your backbone ought to be.
― Sarah McMane
nutmegkitty ( member #33882) posted at 1:53 PM on Wednesday, January 22nd, 2014
Me - happy!
2 DDs
Very happily divorced from an NPD since 2013.
Abbondad ( member #37898) posted at 2:18 PM on Wednesday, January 22nd, 2014
Many congratulations, SBB. You have waited long and endured much. Breathe many deep sighs of relief and freedom and look forward to your life.
[This message edited by Abbondad at 8:19 AM, January 22nd (Wednesday)]
Divorced April Fool's Day 2014
Fear is the mind-killer.Fear is the little-death that brings total obliteration.I will face my fear.I will permit it to pass over me and through me.-Dune
Pass ( member #38122) posted at 2:31 PM on Wednesday, January 22nd, 2014
I'm happy for you, SBB. Congratulations on losing all that weight (that big hunk of dumbass dead weight!).
You deserve a happy, fresh, new beginning.
Divorced the cheater and living my best life now.
The best thing about hitting rock bottom is that everything after that looks fucking fabulous.
ZenMumWalking ( member #25341) posted at 4:13 PM on Wednesday, January 22nd, 2014
How did I almost miss this?????
WOOOOOOOOOOOOO HOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO!!!!!!!!
Way to go SBB - FREEEEEEEEEEEEDDDDDDDOOOOOOOOOOOMMMMMMM!!!
Me (BS), Him (WH): late-50's
3 DS: 26, 25, 22
M: 30+ (19 1/2 at Dday)
Dday: Dec 2008
Wanted R, not gonna happen (in permanent S)
Used to be DeadMumWalking, doing better now
Dobegirl ( member #41837) posted at 4:17 PM on Wednesday, January 22nd, 2014
Hip hip hurrayyyy!!! So happy for you!!
Me- BS 44 Always faithfull
Him- WS 44
2 mo. EA/PA with 25 yr. old slut that stroked his ego, OL profiles, CL ads
Married 8 years-No kids together
DDay-11/21/12...and many more
False R 2 LONG years
Time is a thief when your undecided
Chrysalis123 ( member #27148) posted at 4:18 PM on Wednesday, January 22nd, 2014
Where is the happy dance icon???
CONGRATS!!
Someone I once loved gave me/ a box full of darkness/ It took me years to understand/ That this, too, was a gift. - Mary Oliver
Just for the record darling, not all positive changes feel positive in the beginning -S C Lourie
haysuth01 ( member #29161) posted at 4:18 PM on Wednesday, January 22nd, 2014
Congratulations!!
caregiver9000 ( member #28622) posted at 4:20 PM on Wednesday, January 22nd, 2014
Yay!!!!!! Happy New Year, my friend.
Me: fortysomething, independent, happy,
XH "Stretch" (and Skew!) ;)
two kids, teens. Old enough I am truly NO CONTACT w/ NPD zebraduck
S 5/2010
D 12/2012
cayc ( member #21964) posted at 4:28 PM on Wednesday, January 22nd, 2014
littlefoggy ( member #41429) posted at 4:41 PM on Wednesday, January 22nd, 2014
Me: BW 30
WH 37
DDay 11/12/13
Divorcing
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