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User Topic: Divorced, finally!
SBB
♀ 35229
Member # 35229
Default  Posted: 2:03 AM, January 22nd (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Just opened the envelope with the court stamped doc - I've been free since Saturday!

My colleagues cracked open the champers and my girlfriends are planning a freedom party for me on Friday night.

Almost 2 years from DD and 18m from final S. I've been waiting for the papers since October.

Finally!! WOOWHOO!!


I may have reached a point where I'd piss on him if he was on fire.... eventually!!

Posts: 5735 | Registered: Apr 2012 | From: Australia
Nature_Girl
♀ 32554
Member # 32554
Default  Posted: 2:06 AM, January 22nd (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Many, many, many whoops of joy for you!!!!!!!!!!


Me = BS (Stay-at-home-mom)
Him = EX-d out (abusive troglodyte NPD SA)
3 tween-aged kids
Together 20 years
D-Day: Memorial Weekend 2011
2013 - DIVORCED!
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wJgjyDFfJuU

Posts: 10153 | Registered: Jun 2011 | From: USA
PhantomLimb
♀ 39668
Member # 39668
Default  Posted: 2:31 AM, January 22nd (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

CONGRATS!!!!!!!!


BS / D

Posts: 863 | Registered: Jun 2013
dmari
♀ 37215
Member # 37215
Default  Posted: 2:36 AM, January 22nd (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm about to go to bed and saw your post! Yeehaw!! I'm so happy that another one of us can officially start their new beginning!! Enjoy your freedom party!


Me (BS): 43 Children: DD 19, DS 15
Divorced September 30, 2014
"It's always darkest before the dawn ..."

Posts: 2339 | Registered: Oct 2012
HurtsButImOK
♀ 38865
Member # 38865
Default  Posted: 2:44 AM, January 22nd (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Woooohooooo!

Congratulations.


Its a fucking marvelous day when those papers arrive .


Me: Awesome - 35.... ummm, not anymore

"I’ve learned that people will forget what you said, people will forget what you did, but people will never forget how you made them feel". –Maya Angelou


Posts: 756 | Registered: Apr 2013 | From: Australia
Bluebird26
♀ 36445
Member # 36445
Default  Posted: 3:30 AM, January 22nd (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Congrats SBB! Here's to your new beginning.



"Loving someone should not mean losing you. Love empowers you. It shouldn't erase you. - Thelma Davis.

Posts: 1409 | Registered: Aug 2012 | From: Australia
Amazonia
♀ 32810
Member # 32810
Default  Posted: 5:17 AM, January 22nd (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Congrats!!


"You yourself deserve your love and affection as much as anybody in the universe." -Buddha
"Let's face it, life is a crap shoot." -Sad in AZ

Posts: 13934 | Registered: Jul 2011
copout
♀ 22421
Member # 22421
Default  Posted: 6:27 AM, January 22nd (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Very nice!! Congratulations!!!!!!!!!!


Every new beginning comes from some other beginnings end.

Posts: 295 | Registered: Jan 2009
copout
♀ 22421
Member # 22421
Default  Posted: 6:28 AM, January 22nd (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Very nice!! Congratulations!!!!!!!!!!


Every new beginning comes from some other beginnings end.

Posts: 295 | Registered: Jan 2009
nowiknow23
♀ 33226
Member # 33226
Default  Posted: 7:28 AM, January 22nd (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Woo hoo!!!! Congratulations, honey!


You can call me NIK

"Keep your face always toward the sunshine - and shadows will fall behind you."
-Walt Whitman


Posts: 26541 | Registered: Aug 2011
nutmegkitty
♀ 33882
Member # 33882
Default  Posted: 7:53 AM, January 22nd (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

WOOT!!!


me (BS)
him (NPD Ex)
2 dds
DDay 10/7/11
OW
OC

Divorced 1/17/2013

"Diamonds aren't a girl's best friend, freedom is."


Posts: 2624 | Registered: Nov 2011 | From: MA
Abbondad
♂ 37898
Member # 37898
Default  Posted: 8:18 AM, January 22nd (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Many congratulations, SBB. You have waited long and endured much. Breathe many deep sighs of relief and freedom and look forward to your life.

[This message edited by Abbondad at 8:19 AM, January 22nd (Wednesday)]


Divorced April Fool's Day 2014

Fear is the mind-killer.
Fear is the little-death that brings total obliteration.
I will face my fear.
I will permit it to pass over me and through me.
-Dune


Posts: 1696 | Registered: Dec 2012
Pass
♂ 38122
Member # 38122
Default  Posted: 8:31 AM, January 22nd (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm happy for you, SBB. Congratulations on losing all that weight (that big hunk of dumbass dead weight!).

You deserve a happy, fresh, new beginning.


Loyal spouse: Me; Disloyal spouse: The Princess
Two sons: Now 11 and 14
DDay: Nov 15, 2012
Separated: Mar 2, 2013 after 17 year marriage, now divorcing!

The best thing about hitting rock bottom is that everything after that looks fucking fabulous


Posts: 2157 | Registered: Jan 2013
DeadMumWalking
♀ 25341
Member # 25341
Default  Posted: 10:13 AM, January 22nd (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

How did I almost miss this?????

WOOOOOOOOOOOOO HOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO!!!!!!!!

Way to go SBB - FREEEEEEEEEEEEDDDDDDDOOOOOOOOOOOMMMMMMM!!!


Me (BS), Him (WH): early 50's
3 DS: teens!!! :)
M: 25 (19 1/2 at Dday), Together 30
Dday: Dec 2008
Limbo-ish, again (after multiple S) -- weighing my options

Posts: 2716 | Registered: Aug 2009 | From: EU
Dobegirl
♀ 41837
Member # 41837
Default  Posted: 10:17 AM, January 22nd (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Hip hip hurrayyyy!!! So happy for you!!


Me- BS 44 Always faithfull
Him- WS 44
2 mo. EA/PA with 25 yr. old slut that stroked his ego, OL profiles, CL ads
Married 8 years-No kids together
DDay-11/21/12
False R many different times fromJan/13 till Dec/14
Time is a thief when your undecided

Posts: 154 | Registered: Dec 2013 | From: Northern Indiana
Chrysalis123
♀ 27148
Member # 27148
Default  Posted: 10:18 AM, January 22nd (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Where is the happy dance icon???

CONGRATS!!


Don’t get to the end of your life and find that you lived only the length of it; live the width of it as well. 

Posts: 2820 | Registered: Jan 2010
haysuth01
♀ 29161
Member # 29161
Default  Posted: 10:18 AM, January 22nd (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Congratulations!!


XBS
Divorced 5/07.
DS-7! What?!
Happily remarried, B/G twins (5).

Posts: 220 | Registered: Jul 2010
caregiver9000
♀ 28622
Member # 28622
Default  Posted: 10:20 AM, January 22nd (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Yay!!!!!! Happy New Year, my friend.


Me: 44, independent, happy, despite co-parenting with a lower muppet
FT "Stretch" (and Skew!) ;)
DS 13 DS 10
S 5/2010
D 12/2012

Posts: 5947 | Registered: May 2010 | From: a better place
cayc
♀ 21964
Member # 21964
Default  Posted: 10:28 AM, January 22nd (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Great news!


"I'm not afraid of storms, for I'm learning how to sail my ship." - Louisa May Alcott

Posts: 3207 | Registered: Dec 2008 | From: Mexico
littlefoggy
♀ 41429
Member # 41429
Default  Posted: 10:41 AM, January 22nd (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Congrats!!


Me: BW 30
WH 37
DDay 11/12/13
Divorcing

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