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 homefront (original poster new member #40688) posted at 2:51 PM on Wednesday, January 22nd, 2014

This may seem counter-intuitive, but along with providing insight, support, and an endless list of services during so many peoples' times of need due to infidelity, this forum has shown me something else.

I want to thank you all for illustrating that real passionate love and commitment continue to exist. They aren't reserved for newlyweds. I know it is unfortunate that it takes hurt and tragedy to bring it out, but my heart is so full when I see so many people, a wide range of ages and life experiences, so willing to openly LOVE their partner, even a flawed partner, a partner who f*cked up big time. People here, men and women, speaking so fondly of their marriage and partner. I think years pass, time goes on, and we think the love in a relationship fades in the background behind routine, children, money, "old news"...

But sincerely, in the face of so many challenges, every day this forum shows me love and commitment in a way that makes me believe in the longevity and fire inside of love and marriages. And for also living a love for yourself when the partnership isn't working.

Thank you, all of you, whether new, reconciling, divorcing, for illustrating shades of love. I think this forum could be a book not just on infidelity, but on love for ones-self, and ones spouse, in today's adult world.

BS 40 (Family Law Attorney...yes, really)
WH 43
DDay Nov 7, 2012 after WH had A while deployed, terrible boundaries due to CSA.

So far, so good.

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bionicgal ( member #39803) posted at 2:52 PM on Wednesday, January 22nd, 2014

me - BS (45) - DDay - June 2013
A was 2+ months, EA/PA
In MC & Reconciling
"Getting over a painful experience is much like crossing monkey bars. You have to let go at some point to move forward." -- C.S. Lewis.

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Pentup ( member #20563) posted at 3:26 PM on Wednesday, January 22nd, 2014

Great post. I have learned more here about how to be a better person than I could ever express. Thank you for expressing it so well.

Me- BS
Him- FWS (I hope- F)

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