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User Topic: Anyone look at pics on O.L.D. and think...
hurtbs
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Question  Posted: 4:16 PM, January 22nd (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

**deleted** nevermind.

[This message edited by hurtbs at 4:23 PM, January 22nd (Wednesday)]


Me BW Him XSAWH
DDays 2006, and then numerous more
Divorced 2012

"In life, unlike chess, the game continues after checkmate." - Asimov
"Be patient and tough; someday this pain will be useful to you." - Ovid


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newnormal
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Default  Posted: 7:33 PM, January 22nd (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Yes, that's what I thought.
Deleted my pictures.
Said to myself never mind (I'm going to look somewhere else after a break).


BS 43 (me)
FWH 48
D-day 9/07

Dont retreat, reload.
"Pull that knife out of your back - and sever the fuel line to that bus you got thrown under" Bufffalo


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Brandon808
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Default  Posted: 8:02 PM, January 22nd (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Aw come on!!!
You canna leave us hangin' hurtbs!


xBH
D final 8/2012

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little turtle
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Default  Posted: 7:12 AM, January 23rd (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

think what?


Failure is success if we learn from it.

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littlefoggy
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Default  Posted: 11:00 AM, January 23rd (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I keep coming back to this thread because I must know...


I don't like pics that are obviously selfie-oh-crap-i-need-profile-pic. Like put some effort into it.

But I also don't like professional looking pictures. Like they are probably fake. Or pilfered off the interwebs.

And I don't think there should be other girls/guys in your picture. Or obviously cropped out of your picture.

I feel like we could have a really good discussion about pictures on OLD.


Me: BW 30
WH 37
DDay 11/12/13
Divorcing

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thyme2go
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Default  Posted: 11:44 AM, January 23rd (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I don't get it. Exactly what is wrong with a selfie? I would think any form of a current picture is better than one that is a year or more old.


BH - no longer 49
3 DD's - (29, 25 and 18)
Divorced on 8/6/09

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better4me
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Default  Posted: 12:46 PM, January 23rd (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Exactly what is wrong with a selfie?
Nothing wrong, I think that the "put some effort into it" is the point with selfies--clean up your bedroom/bathroom before you post a picture of yourself in the mirror with an unmade bed/dirty bathtub also in the mirror.

It is amusing that this *deleted* thread has generated so many replies. Wonder what hurtbs posted and then thought "better not" about


DDay 11/17/2010 BW:53
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nutmegkitty
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Default  Posted: 1:07 PM, January 23rd (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Some selfies are ok. It's the shirtless ones that gross me out

And whatever you were going to say, hurtbs, I'm sure that yes, I've thought the same exact thing


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DDay 10/7/11
OW
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GabyBaby
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Default  Posted: 3:02 PM, January 23rd (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Some selfies are ok. It's the shirtless ones that gross me out

Yeeeaaaahhhh....this!
I agree that selfies are ok, but please double check the background before you post it!
We don't need to see shots of your economy sized jar of anal lube or the whips hanging on the wall.
Making the bed or washing the dishes etc would be nice too.


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SorryInSac (STBX WH#2) - 47. DDay 7/12/14
Married 4, together 7yrs total
Status - Done

DD(21), DS(18, PDD-NOS)
6 Furkids - 4 dogs, 2 cats

WXH (serial cheater, 12+ OW) - Legally married 18yrs

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littlefoggy
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Default  Posted: 3:30 PM, January 23rd (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Its the selfies in the dirty bathrooms that ick me out the most.

Like, dude, at least wipe off your mirror and clean your sink off first.

ETA: AND put your toilet seat down... I can see it in the mirror!

[This message edited by littlefoggy at 3:31 PM, January 23rd (Thursday)]


Me: BW 30
WH 37
DDay 11/12/13
Divorcing

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h0peless
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Default  Posted: 4:30 PM, January 23rd (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

ETA: AND put your toilet seat down... I can see it in the mirror!

At least you know they're single!


Posts: 1851 | Registered: Sep 2012 | From: Baja Arizona
hurtbs
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Default  Posted: 5:53 PM, January 23rd (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Okay, here is what I originally posted:

You ever look at OLD photos and think: "serial killer." Don't get me wrong, I'm sure they're great guys, they just pick photos of themselves that make me think they have a dozen dead hookers in the backyard.

Then again, maybe I come across as crazy dog lady...

This is why people should help you pick photos!


Me BW Him XSAWH
DDays 2006, and then numerous more
Divorced 2012

"In life, unlike chess, the game continues after checkmate." - Asimov
"Be patient and tough; someday this pain will be useful to you." - Ovid


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better4me
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Default  Posted: 9:37 PM, January 23rd (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

You ever look at OLD photos and think: "serial killer."
Okay. That was worth waiting for!


DDay 11/17/2010 BW:53
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Tripletrouble
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Default  Posted: 9:45 PM, January 23rd (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Yeah, I would think "chloroform and rag".


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Divorced November 2013

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thyme2go
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Default  Posted: 1:45 AM, January 24th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

You ever look at OLD photos and think: "serial killer."

Actually, yes. Many women have the fatal attraction look in their eyes. Many were good looking and I would not even look at their profiles.


BH - no longer 49
3 DD's - (29, 25 and 18)
Divorced on 8/6/09

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lieshurt
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Default  Posted: 8:09 AM, January 24th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

You ever look at OLD photos and think: "serial killer."

All of the time.



A relationship without trust is like a car without gas. You can stay in it all you want, but it won't go anywhere.

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shiloe
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Default  Posted: 8:21 AM, January 24th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

You ever look at OLD photos and think: "serial killer."

OMG yes! or pedophile . . .pervert . . .felon . . rapist


But remember, good love is hard to find . . -Tom Petty and the Heartbreakers
BS - 54
Cheater -54
Married 26 yrs
DD - 21 DD -19 DS-17
A#1 2000 with married ho-worker/neighbor ow#1
A#2 2007-? OW#2 LTA with yet another married ho-worker. Kicked h

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curiouswiz
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Default  Posted: 8:25 AM, January 24th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

The best by far is the toothless dude laughing with his mouth open sitting in his recliner. He took four or five in this recliner and was proudly proclaiming in the tag lines that "Here I am with no teeth ladies!" And. "Here I am with my teeth in!" Then telling us that he likes to stay home, watch tv and sit in his recliner all day.

Okay ladies; Tell me you don't want to find out where this lovely man is...


God bless us, everyone.

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nutmegkitty
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Default  Posted: 8:32 AM, January 24th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Yep, I've thought that on several occasions


me (BS)
him (NPD Ex)
2 dds
DDay 10/7/11
OW
OC

Divorced 1/17/2013

"Diamonds aren't a girl's best friend, freedom is."


Posts: 2624 | Registered: Nov 2011 | From: MA
time2grow
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Default  Posted: 2:01 PM, January 24th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

It's been worth the wait to see what this thread was to be about.

I visited 1 OLD site . . . My XWW was on the opening preview screen before I even signed up . . . I have not returned since.

I know enough people IRL with issues, I'm not shopping for more.


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