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Topic: Think I am going to miscarry
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JanaGreen
♀ 29341
Member # 29341 |  Posted: 4:21 PM, January 22nd (Wednesday), 2014 |     |
So back in 2009, I was pregnant & went in for my 12-week appointment. I had already had two ultrasounds where the heartbeat was seen. The doctor couldn't find the heartbeat with the doppler so he sent me to ultrasound, and there was no heartbeat. Since we had seen the heartbeat twice and then it wasn't there at my 12-week appointment, he knew the heart had started and then stopped.
This time I'm supposed to be 7w5d today, but the baby measured 6w6d. Heartbeat usually starts in 5-6 week range. So since the baby is measuring within the six week range still, and this is the first ultrasound (ie, they haven't seen the HB prior) they are going to get me in next week for another ultrasound. Because the heart COULD start, theoretically. However, I am pretty realistic about my chances here. To me, this is just being extra careful to not abort a potentially viable fetus. I don't really have any hope. I mean, I'm not going to go home and freebase cocaine or anything, but yeah. I'm pretty solid on my dates. I was using ovulation predictor kits and I know I ovulated on Friday the 13th of December. Oh irony.
My doctor is out of town so I didn't get to talk to him - I talked to a nurse. I'm not in shock like I was last time, but I'm really disappointed. And I feel like a fool for getting my hopes up and telling some people.
Just fucking sucks. I know there's no such thing as fair in the grown-up world, but I keep thinking it's not fair. I was sure I was never going to get to have another baby and I get a positive pregnancy test on CHRISTMAS DAY. And now it's being taken away from me. I know it could be worse, and I already have one perfect child, so I shouldn't complain. But right now it just really sucks. [This message edited by JanaGreen at 4:24 PM, January 22nd (Wednesday)]
He's 41, I'm 35. One awesome 6-year-old daughter, and a brand-new sweet baby boy, June 5.
Posts: 7716 | Registered: Aug 2010 | From: The land of a thousand guilts and poured cement |
MovingUpward
♂ 14866
Member # 14866 | | Posted: 4:24 PM, January 22nd (Wednesday), 2014 | |
(((Jana)))
AKA Moo
Think of the haters in your life as sandpaper; they’ll scratch you up time and time again but in the end you’re polished, smooth, and spotless..while they end up useless
We make a living by what we get, but we make a life by what we give.
Posts: 54367 | Registered: Jun 2007 | From: Big Blue Nation |
zebra25
♀ 29431
Member # 29431 | | Posted: 4:33 PM, January 22nd (Wednesday), 2014 | |
(((Jana)))
Me-BS 50's
Him-WH 50's
D-day April 2010
Married-20+yrs
Posts: 1371 | Registered: Aug 2010 |
metamorphisis
♀ 12041
Member # 12041 | | Posted: 4:33 PM, January 22nd (Wednesday), 2014 | |
 Oh jana. I am so sorry. I hope so very much that everything is ok. Sending you love.
"79% of stair accidents happen on the stairs"..Gumball Watterson
Posts: 49778 | Registered: Sep 2006 |
hurtbs
♀ 10866
Member # 10866 | | Posted: 4:35 PM, January 22nd (Wednesday), 2014 | |
I'm so sorry. I'm thinking about you.
Me BW Him XSAWH
DDays 2006, and then numerous more
Divorced 2012
"In life, unlike chess, the game continues after checkmate." - Asimov
"Be patient and tough; someday this pain will be useful to you." - Ovid
Posts: 15606 | Registered: Jun 2006 |
gahurts
♂ 33699
Member # 33699 | | Posted: 4:41 PM, January 22nd (Wednesday), 2014 | |
Sorry yo are going through this Jana. My prayers that the baby is ok.
"Strength does not come from physical capacity. It comes from an indominable will" - Mahatma Gandi
"Courage is being scared to death and saddling up anyway." - Aubrie
Posts: 3960 | Registered: Oct 2011 | From: Georgia |
jrc1963
♀ 26531
Member # 26531 | | Posted: 4:50 PM, January 22nd (Wednesday), 2014 | |
((( Jana)))
Me: BSO - 48
Him: FWSO - 71
DS - 15
D-Day - 12-11-09,
R - he finally came home
Your life is an Occasion. Rise to it. - Mr. Magorium, "Mr. Magorium's Wonder Emporium"
Posts: 25633 | Registered: Dec 2009 | From: Florida |
ajsmom
♀ 17460
Member # 17460 | | Posted: 4:51 PM, January 22nd (Wednesday), 2014 | |
So sorry, Jana.
Praying things will be alright.
AJ's MOM
Fidelity isn't a feeling...it's a choice.
"Truth has no special time of its own. Its hour is now - always." - Albert Schweitzer
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Me: BW - Him: 200+ # tumor removed 7/09
DS - 33 - Yikes!
Posts: 21311 | Registered: Dec 2007 | From: Been Through Hell...On My Way Back |
jo2love
♀ 31528
Member # 31528 | | Posted: 4:53 PM, January 22nd (Wednesday), 2014 | |
Posts: 46393 | Registered: Mar 2011 |
sunandmoon
♀ 10180
Member # 10180 | | Posted: 4:54 PM, January 22nd (Wednesday), 2014 | |
(((Jana)))
Thoughts and prayers for you.
sunandmoon
Posts: 1635 | Registered: Mar 2006 |
GabyBaby
♀ 26928
Member # 26928 | | Posted: 5:23 PM, January 22nd (Wednesday), 2014 | |
((( Jana )))
Me - 44
DD(23), DS(20, PDD-NOS)
WH#2 (SorryinSac)- Killed himself in our home 6 days after being served divorce docs.
XWH #1 - legally married 18yrs. 12+ OW (that I know of).
I edit often for clarity/typos.
Posts: 9465 | Registered: Dec 2009 | From: Here and There |
Williesmom
♀ 22870
Member # 22870 | | Posted: 5:39 PM, January 22nd (Wednesday), 2014 | |
((Jana))
You can stuff your sorries in a sack, mister. -George Costanza
There is a special place in hell for women who don't help other women. - Madeleine Albright
Posts: 8905 | Registered: Feb 2009 | From: Western PA |
deeplysad
♀ 16590
Member # 16590 | | Posted: 5:46 PM, January 22nd (Wednesday), 2014 | |
(((Jana)))
Me: BW - I'm much too young to feel this damn old
Him: FWH - Midlife crisis with a pathetic porn wannabe
D-Day: August 2004; Lots of false R until February 2005.
It takes all kinds of kinds....Miranda Lambert
Posts: 3367 | Registered: Oct 2007 | From: So Calif |
sisoon
♂ 31240
Member # 31240 | | Posted: 5:47 PM, January 22nd (Wednesday), 2014 | |
(((Jana)))
fBH (me) - 70, fWW, Married 45+, together 45+, same sex ap
DDay - 12/22/2010
Recover'd and pretty much R'ed
I'm not an exemplar. I share my own experience because it's all I know.
Posts: 13979 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: Illinois |
TattoodChinaDoll
♀ 34602
Member # 34602 | | Posted: 5:56 PM, January 22nd (Wednesday), 2014 | |
I haven't posted about this...well, until now. I had a positive test on Christmas Eve. I miscarried my second angel in a year on January 8...2 weeks ago. Boy do I get how you're feeling. I'm praying for you. [This message edited by TattoodChinaDoll at 6:05 PM, January 22nd (Wednesday)]
Me: 34
WH: 35 TimeToManUp
Married: 12 years, together 18 years
3 daughters: 10, 7, 4, and 2 angel babies (2013 and 2014)
D-Day: 12/21/2011
Confronted him: 12/22/2011
This is the most difficult thing I've ever done.
Posts: 1840 | Registered: Jan 2012 | From: New Jersey |
JanaGreen
♀ 29341
Member # 29341 | | Posted: 5:59 PM, January 22nd (Wednesday), 2014 | |
Shit TCD. I'm sorry. It's such a cruel joke - merry Christmas - psych, never mind. It's so fucking unfair, I'm sorry honey.
He's 41, I'm 35. One awesome 6-year-old daughter, and a brand-new sweet baby boy, June 5.
Posts: 7716 | Registered: Aug 2010 | From: The land of a thousand guilts and poured cement |
HFSSC
♀ 33338
Member # 33338 | | Posted: 6:00 PM, January 22nd (Wednesday), 2014 | |
(((JanaGreen)))
(((TCD)))
I SO wish there was something I could do to make this better for y'all. I'm so sorry.
Me, 49
Him, 41 (JMSSC)
married 19 years. In R. We are making it. The past does not define who we are today.
Posts: 3628 | Registered: Sep 2011 | From: South Carolina |
betrayedfriend
♀ 19785
Member # 19785 | | Posted: 6:18 PM, January 22nd (Wednesday), 2014 | |
(((Jana and TCDD))) I am so sorry. 10 years ago Christmas Eve I had my second miscarriage in a row, it was devastating. I wish peace for both of you.
I originally joined SI as a way to help my best friends find ways of coping with infidelity, but now infidelity has touched my family much closer to home.
Posts: 999 | Registered: Jun 2008 | From: Midwest USA |
gahurts
♂ 33699
Member # 33699 | | Posted: 6:21 PM, January 22nd (Wednesday), 2014 | |
I'm so sorry TCD.
"Strength does not come from physical capacity. It comes from an indominable will" - Mahatma Gandi
"Courage is being scared to death and saddling up anyway." - Aubrie
Posts: 3960 | Registered: Oct 2011 | From: Georgia |
unfound
♀ 12802
Member # 12802 | | Posted: 6:28 PM, January 22nd (Wednesday), 2014 | |
((Jana)) ((TCD)))
ka-mai
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Kids on the playground can be so cruel. “Get off the swings you’re like 50, and stop talking about Soundgarden, we don't even know what that is."
Posts: 14937 | Registered: Nov 2006 | From: mercury's underboob |
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