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JanaGreen posted 1/22/2014 16:21 PM

So back in 2009, I was pregnant & went in for my 12-week appointment. I had already had two ultrasounds where the heartbeat was seen. The doctor couldn't find the heartbeat with the doppler so he sent me to ultrasound, and there was no heartbeat. Since we had seen the heartbeat twice and then it wasn't there at my 12-week appointment, he knew the heart had started and then stopped.

This time I'm supposed to be 7w5d today, but the baby measured 6w6d. Heartbeat usually starts in 5-6 week range. So since the baby is measuring within the six week range still, and this is the first ultrasound (ie, they haven't seen the HB prior) they are going to get me in next week for another ultrasound. Because the heart COULD start, theoretically. However, I am pretty realistic about my chances here. To me, this is just being extra careful to not abort a potentially viable fetus. I don't really have any hope. I mean, I'm not going to go home and freebase cocaine or anything, but yeah. I'm pretty solid on my dates. I was using ovulation predictor kits and I know I ovulated on Friday the 13th of December. Oh irony.

My doctor is out of town so I didn't get to talk to him - I talked to a nurse. I'm not in shock like I was last time, but I'm really disappointed. And I feel like a fool for getting my hopes up and telling some people.

Just fucking sucks. I know there's no such thing as fair in the grown-up world, but I keep thinking it's not fair. I was sure I was never going to get to have another baby and I get a positive pregnancy test on CHRISTMAS DAY. And now it's being taken away from me. I know it could be worse, and I already have one perfect child, so I shouldn't complain. But right now it just really sucks.

[This message edited by JanaGreen at 4:24 PM, January 22nd (Wednesday)]

MovingUpward posted 1/22/2014 16:24 PM

(((Jana)))

zebra25 posted 1/22/2014 16:33 PM

(((Jana)))

metamorphisis posted 1/22/2014 16:33 PM

Oh jana. I am so sorry. I hope so very much that everything is ok. Sending you love.

hurtbs posted 1/22/2014 16:35 PM

I'm so sorry. I'm thinking about you.

gahurts posted 1/22/2014 16:41 PM

Sorry yo are going through this Jana. My prayers that the baby is ok.

jrc1963 posted 1/22/2014 16:50 PM

((( Jana)))

ajsmom posted 1/22/2014 16:51 PM

So sorry, Jana.

Praying things will be alright.


AJ's MOM

jo2love posted 1/22/2014 16:53 PM

((((Jana))))

sunandmoon posted 1/22/2014 16:54 PM

(((Jana)))

Thoughts and prayers for you.

sunandmoon

GabyBaby posted 1/22/2014 17:23 PM

((( Jana )))

Williesmom posted 1/22/2014 17:39 PM

((Jana))

deeplysad posted 1/22/2014 17:46 PM

(((Jana)))

sisoon posted 1/22/2014 17:47 PM

(((Jana)))

TattoodChinaDoll posted 1/22/2014 17:56 PM

I haven't posted about this...well, until now. I had a positive test on Christmas Eve. I miscarried my second angel in a year on January 8...2 weeks ago. Boy do I get how you're feeling. I'm praying for you.

[This message edited by TattoodChinaDoll at 6:05 PM, January 22nd (Wednesday)]

JanaGreen posted 1/22/2014 17:59 PM

Shit TCD. I'm sorry. It's such a cruel joke - merry Christmas - psych, never mind. It's so fucking unfair, I'm sorry honey.

HFSSC posted 1/22/2014 18:00 PM

(((JanaGreen)))
(((TCD)))

I SO wish there was something I could do to make this better for y'all. I'm so sorry.

betrayedfriend posted 1/22/2014 18:18 PM

(((Jana and TCDD))) I am so sorry. 10 years ago Christmas Eve I had my second miscarriage in a row, it was devastating. I wish peace for both of you.

gahurts posted 1/22/2014 18:21 PM

I'm so sorry TCD.

unfound posted 1/22/2014 18:28 PM

((Jana)) ((TCD)))

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