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 jrc1963 (original poster member #26531) posted at 11:06 PM on Wednesday, January 22nd, 2014

One of my goofy 6th graders... I was headed into the bathroom, that's located within my classroom to wash out my cereal bowl.

And this 11 year old 6th grade EBD Student followed me in... and just kept talking the whole time.

I turned around and said "X, get out... " and he couldn't figure out why I was telling him to go.

This is a special ed kid... He has a lower average intelligence and probably is on the autism spectrum, but very high functioning.

His behaviors are very odd to say the least...

But I never expected him to follow me into the bathroom.

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ajsmom ( member #17460) posted at 11:12 PM on Wednesday, January 22nd, 2014

Gives me the shivers since hearing of the teacher that was murdered by her student in the bathroom.

Hoping you plan to discuss this with his parents.

AJ's MOM

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HFSSC ( member #33338) posted at 11:16 PM on Wednesday, January 22nd, 2014

DS22 still does this with me sometimes at home. He gets SO singlemindedly focused on whatever it is he is talking about and he often barely takes a breath, so if I have to go, then I end up having to say, "Stop talking, please and let me use the bathroom." And then he's all surprised and flustered, bless his heart.

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Him, 48 (JMSSC)
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GabyBaby ( member #26928) posted at 11:52 PM on Wednesday, January 22nd, 2014

He gets SO singlemindedly focused on whatever it is he is talking about

Ditto this for my son as well.

Me - late 40s
DD(27), DS(24, PDD-NOS)

WH#2 (SorryinSac)- Killed himself (May 2015) in our home 6 days after being served divorce docs.
XWH #1 - legally married 18yrs. 12+ OW (that I know of).

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 jrc1963 (original poster member #26531) posted at 11:53 PM on Wednesday, January 22nd, 2014

AJ's mom...

I wasn't alone... there were 4 other students and my paraprofessional in the room as well.

Although... I think in a few years this is going to be a stalker kinda kid.

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 jrc1963 (original poster member #26531) posted at 12:02 AM on Thursday, January 23rd, 2014

I don't think I'd have a problem if my son did this by mistake...

But this is a student... someone else's child. No relation to me whatseoever...

He has a history of severe boundary issues...

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