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Topic: He followed me into the bathroom...

jrc1963
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Posted: 5:06 PM, January 22nd (Wednesday), 2014

One of my goofy 6th graders... I was headed into the bathroom, that's located within my classroom to wash out my cereal bowl.

And this 11 year old 6th grade EBD Student followed me in... and just kept talking the whole time.

I turned around and said "X, get out... " and he couldn't figure out why I was telling him to go.

This is a special ed kid... He has a lower average intelligence and probably is on the autism spectrum, but very high functioning.

His behaviors are very odd to say the least...

But I never expected him to follow me into the bathroom.

Me: BSO - 49
Him: FWSO - 72
DS - 16
D-Day - 12-11-09,
R - he finally came home
Your life is an Occasion. Rise to it. - Mr. Magorium, "Mr. Magorium's Wonder Emporium"

Posts: 25974 | Registered: Dec 2009 | From: Florida

ajsmom
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Posted: 5:12 PM, January 22nd (Wednesday), 2014

Gives me the shivers since hearing of the teacher that was murdered by her student in the bathroom.

Hoping you plan to discuss this with his parents.

AJ's MOM

Fidelity isn't a feeling...it's a choice.

"Truth has no special time of its own. Its hour is now - always." - Albert Schweitzer
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One AMAZING DS - 34

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HFSSC
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Posted: 5:16 PM, January 22nd (Wednesday), 2014

DS22 still does this with me sometimes at home. He gets SO singlemindedly focused on whatever it is he is talking about and he often barely takes a breath, so if I have to go, then I end up having to say, "Stop talking, please and let me use the bathroom." And then he's all surprised and flustered, bless his heart.

Me, 50. (How did THAT happen??)
Him, 42 (JMSSC)
married 20 years. In R. We are making it. The past does not define who we are today.

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GabyBaby
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Posted: 5:52 PM, January 22nd (Wednesday), 2014

He gets SO singlemindedly focused on whatever it is he is talking about

Ditto this for my son as well.

Me - 45
DD(24), DS(21, PDD-NOS)

WH#2 (SorryinSac)- Killed himself (May 2015) in our home 6 days after being served divorce docs.
XWH #1 - legally married 18yrs. 12+ OW (that I know of).

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jrc1963
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Posted: 5:53 PM, January 22nd (Wednesday), 2014

AJ's mom...

I wasn't alone... there were 4 other students and my paraprofessional in the room as well.

Although... I think in a few years this is going to be a stalker kinda kid.

Me: BSO - 49
Him: FWSO - 72
DS - 16
D-Day - 12-11-09,
R - he finally came home
Your life is an Occasion. Rise to it. - Mr. Magorium, "Mr. Magorium's Wonder Emporium"

Posts: 25974 | Registered: Dec 2009 | From: Florida

jrc1963
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Posted: 6:02 PM, January 22nd (Wednesday), 2014

I don't think I'd have a problem if my son did this by mistake...

But this is a student... someone else's child. No relation to me whatseoever...

He has a history of severe boundary issues...

Me: BSO - 49
Him: FWSO - 72
DS - 16
D-Day - 12-11-09,
R - he finally came home
Your life is an Occasion. Rise to it. - Mr. Magorium, "Mr. Magorium's Wonder Emporium"

Posts: 25974 | Registered: Dec 2009 | From: Florida

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