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User Topic: Ugh.
tesla
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Default  Posted: 7:46 PM, January 22nd (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Teslet brought home a flyer for a family breakfast at his school...needs rsvp.

Teslet said he'd like his mom and dad to come would I let dad know? Oh and we should invite stripper whore too because she lives with dad.

Ah, fuck me, this family breakfast is on D-day. Great.

Gonna get my big girl panties on and text this fucker. Fuck. Fuck. Fuck.


"Thou art the son and heir of a mongrel bitch." --King Lear

Posts: 4744 | Registered: Jan 2012 | From: Indiana
IrishLass518
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Default  Posted: 7:50 PM, January 22nd (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

You are such a good mom. Remember that, above all else.


Me: 46 BS Divorced
Him: 45 Married OW
DDay: 07/04/2008
Divorced: 06/15/2011
5 kids: IrishLass 27,IrishLad 25, IrishLass 23, IrishLad 21 and IrishLad 12
"You can't run from trouble..there ain't no place that far"

Posts: 1800 | Registered: Jan 2012 | From: WA
risingfromashes
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Default  Posted: 8:18 PM, January 22nd (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

You go in there with your head held high. Stripper-whore will be more uncomfortable because there will not be another parent there that does not respect you for your dedication to Teslet. But I may be wrong because she is oblivious.
No one will miss that they are a train wreck of dysfunctional delusions thinking that decent people want them at a school function. Especially the dumbass who showed up with a stripper-whore.

[This message edited by risingfromashes at 8:22 PM, January 22nd (Wednesday)]


There is a wonderful life on the other side of hell.

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peridot
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Default  Posted: 8:24 PM, January 22nd (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Just keep reminding yourself that you are doing this for Teslet.


I think...therefore, I'm single.

It is what it is.


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nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 8:26 PM, January 22nd (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

((((tesla))))


You can call me NIK

"Keep your face always toward the sunshine - and shadows will fall behind you."
-Walt Whitman


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dmari
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Default  Posted: 8:29 PM, January 22nd (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

to the flyer and hugs to you. You are a good mom. If they DO come, YOU will get the praise and respect from the other parents and teachers. They will get ... crickets.


Me (BS): 43 Children: DD 19, DS 15
Divorced September 30, 2014
"It's always darkest before the dawn ..."

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ruinedandbroken
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Default  Posted: 8:33 PM, January 22nd (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

What a good mom you are.

I don't think I could do it. :(


“People who cheat feel that life is for the taking, and that everyone deserves happiness no matter what the cost. I must remember these tricks if I ever have my soul surgically removed."
Me: BS 42. Him: WH 41 2 Kids 6&9
Married 14 yrs Together 21

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SBB
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Default  Posted: 8:38 PM, January 22nd (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I never talk to the sad clown about this stuff - I forward the note to him either in the girls bags or via email with no comment if the date is close.

If the girls asked OWUmpteen to come I'd tell them they should talk to their dad.

If she does show they are the ones who should feel uncomfortable. They will look ridiculous.

((Tesla)) I would struggle to hear that come out of my babies mouths. I'm glad he feels comfortable enough to tell you, but still.


I may have reached a point where I'd piss on him if he was on fire.... eventually!!

Posts: 5660 | Registered: Apr 2012 | From: Australia
inconnu
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Default  Posted: 8:40 PM, January 22nd (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((tesla))) I'm sorry, sweetie. This must be horrible for you. But maybe look at it this way. You'll most likely have some great (and by great I mean in the train wreck sense of the word) stories to post that will entertain us all.


Say what you wanna say and let the words fall out...honestly
I wanna see you be brave

Pretty pretty please, don't you ever ever feel
Like you're less than, less than perfect


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tryingagain74
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Default  Posted: 8:52 PM, January 22nd (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

If your ex-shat runs true to form, he won't show up. He'll forget or think that it was the following week, etc.

If he does, though... sorry, I don't blame you for not wanting to share the same air with them, but won't he look so stupid with her on his arm. I mean, based on your descriptions, what an embarrassment she must be. I'm sure the members of the PTA will be delighted to meet her and will invite her to join!


BS (Me) 39
Happily liberated!
Two DS and One DD
It matters not how strait the gate,/How charged with punishments the scroll./I am the master of my fate:/I am the captain of my soul.--"Invictus," William Ernest Henley

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myowndystopia
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Default  Posted: 8:55 PM, January 22nd (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Is there not like a email newsletter that would make him responsible for
a. Reading it
b. responding to it and then
c. Actually showing up

Then the pressure is off of you to pass on info. If he doesn't show or respond-----he didn't read his email!


Me- BS
Him - WS (the Grub)
married 28 years/4 kids(mostly grown)

"'Cause there's a side to you that I never knew, never knew.
All the things you'd say, they were never true, never true "
Set Fire to the Rain
Adele


Posts: 408 | Registered: Nov 2013
tesla
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Default  Posted: 9:03 PM, January 22nd (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

He's not going to show...I know it. He's too much of a chickenshit. He dislikes the school because he couldn't get his way earlier in the year with having stripper whore do pick ups.

And *if* he did show up with her and the OC, it would be fucking train wreck central. Shit, it probably would make for a great post.

I've never bothered before about communicating these kind of things because there was always time to send it over or there was a link on the school's website...but this time there wasn't. And Teslet asked specifically.

For Teslet's sake, I hope the fucker shows up.
For my sake, I hope he doesn't.
FTG.


"Thou art the son and heir of a mongrel bitch." --King Lear

Posts: 4744 | Registered: Jan 2012 | From: Indiana
ButterflyGirl
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Default  Posted: 9:14 PM, January 22nd (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I've gotten many "requests" from FTFred through my son, and I ignore ALL of those. DS should NOT be responsible for relaying FT's wishes. If he wants to coordinate something with me, he can ask his damn self.

I scan and email him school and scouting activities, but he ignores them all anyway. Oh well, I did my part..


xBW~ 35
Two DS~ 7-Eleven
"I've wiped the shit off. It can be wiped off you know." ~ asurvivor

Posts: 2697 | Registered: Feb 2013 | From: Florida, USA
tesla
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Default  Posted: 9:25 PM, January 22nd (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Memo to Tesla -- invest in a scanner...this is not the last time this is going to happen.


"Thou art the son and heir of a mongrel bitch." --King Lear

Posts: 4744 | Registered: Jan 2012 | From: Indiana
kiki1
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Default  Posted: 9:29 PM, January 22nd (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Tesla,

Werent you the poster about picking up dog shit for a happy meal

If bad comes to worse and they show, think of that. They'll wonder why you smile so and you'll have your mind on other things.

Good Luck and yes, you are a great mom!!

Hugs,,,,,,


Posts: 686 | Registered: Oct 2012 | From: new york
thebighurt
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Default  Posted: 10:24 PM, January 22nd (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((Tesla))) You always do the right thing.

I, on the other hand, would 'forget' to send it until it was too late to rsvp. Because I know xpos *would* show up.


Finding what life could have been....... Why didn't I see it?

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SBB
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Default  Posted: 11:30 PM, January 22nd (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

In situations like ours I would be wary of becoming the messenger for our kids - especially if you think he's not going to show.

Teslet needs to ask him if he wants him there. I showed up to my big girls first school info night - the sad clown did not. She kept asking if he was coming and I said I didn't know. She then asked if I told him and I said I didn't have to because the school tells him everything they tell me. He lied told her I didn't tell him.

Imagine if I had asked him - he still would have said I didn't tell him but she would have no proof of it. She now asks him herself. If he doesn't show it's on him - no-one else.


I may have reached a point where I'd piss on him if he was on fire.... eventually!!

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BAB61
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Default  Posted: 11:37 PM, January 22nd (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Oh my. I'm not sure I would be able to do that. I would probably have Teslet call him. Good on you for being a great Mom!


Boss A** B*tch
BS/52 Me, STBXpos/56, dd's 16&14
1st D-day 10/19/2013 EA/PA
2nd D-day 12/7/2013 LTA/Rendezvous
S 12/7/2013 No-fault state, 6 mo S, counting down the days.

Posts: 1271 | Registered: Oct 2013 | From: DE
Nature_Girl
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Default  Posted: 11:52 PM, January 22nd (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

You are a better mom than me.


Me = BS (Stay-at-home-mom)
Him = EX-d out (abusive troglodyte NPD SA)
3 tween-aged kids
Together 20 years
D-Day: Memorial Weekend 2011
2013 - DIVORCED!
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wJgjyDFfJuU

Posts: 10029 | Registered: Jun 2011 | From: USA
thebighurt
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Default  Posted: 1:21 AM, January 23rd (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Hahaha, love that, NG! Sure feels like that dealing with them, doesn't it??


Finding what life could have been....... Why didn't I see it?

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