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I can't take much more here... Dealing with all this bullshit with her, my sons still dealing with it, youngest had surgery on Tuesday and is in a lot of pain (getting better but still sore) and now I get to go back and have my leg cut back open to remove whatever infection or issue going on inside tomorrow (all came about today). I can't fucking win..I can do it and have gotten help for tomorrow in place already but fuck me... Oh well it's not like she would have looked after me anyway if she was here!! When do they quit serving all these shit sammiches in life!???!

(((brokenfyrman))) Sorry your youngest is in pain from surgery. That really sucks. I'm glad you got things set-up for after your surgery. Hope they get everything out that they need to. Take care of yourself and your kids. Hopefully you can heal and then get on with cleaning the shit outta your life!

short answer: that kitchen is always open. It's got a faster service window for those of us who have been betrayed by someone we loved and trusted.

You can get through this. It won't be easy and it won't be fun, but you can find the parts of yourself that are strong enough and use them until the rest of you catches up. Good luck with your procedure tomorrow! and let us know how it goes?

((((brokenfyrman))))

It can seem relentless at times. It sure sounds relentless in your post. But you've got this. You are handling it all beautifully. Keep on walking, fyrman.

I took off after I got to this point.
I had a ticket to go to Myrtle Beach and I used it.
Is there anyplace you and the boys can go for a weekend? Someplace that won't trigger you and will create better memories down the road?
Honey, you NEEEEEED a break and soon!
(((brokenfryman & DSs)))

Brother. Sorry it pours when it rains , but that is when we have to dig deep. Now is the time that separates the men from the boys. You will get through all the shit sandwiches because you have no choice. Stay strong

After the storm will come the rainbow. Keep your chin up during the storm so you are looking for that rainbow!

I know it seems like the crap is never ending, and it is so easy to let it swallow you up. But keep plugging along and soon the shit part will be over. You can do this!

((((brokenfyrman)))) I am so sorry about all you and your son have to endure. You can do it, you sound like you are a strong individual who is taking good care of his family. That's definitively not something she can say!

Hugs my friend, you got this, you know you do. It is just the inequity of it all. Why do the WS seem to just glide on unscathed while everything happens to the BS?
Because....I have no idea. No words of wisdom just prayers for you to find the inner strength to get through this.
Your sons are proud of you and how you are handling this of this I am sure. Take care...

My oldest texted to ask me about his brother's progress and asked if número cinco had come by to visit or check on him. I told him what she said about just calling. So he tells me this...

yea i know ive talked to him he doenst think she wants much to do with us

Why the fuck is she doing this to them?? They so don't deserve this. Oldest and I were discussing how things were going and we ended up talking about how she doesn't want to be my wife anymore and doesn't "just" want to be their mom.
Oh this is so frustrating.