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grownapair posted 1/23/2014 16:26 PM

I'm come to the conclusion that when you've experienced something in a certain way, that will be the first place your head goes regardless of whether or not it's the same the next time.

WH informed me tonight that he's booked a week off work and he's off to Amsterdam to stay with a friend next week. Yeah...I so am not buying it. The first time I booted him out, he lied and said he had a work trip. He was having a sneaky holiday with the OW. The second time I booted him out (which I am thinking should have been the last, more fool me!), he met up with OW again. He moved out last Sunday, I find it funny timing that he's managed to book a week off work and arrange a holiday that fast. My bet is actually on him going to see the latest lady he's been chatting to online. In which case, that makes it easy and I am DONE!

I asked him to email me his itinerary before he goes in case there's an emergency with the kids. What's the bet he 'forgets' or sends me generic flight info? It WILL all come out in the wash, if he's got nothing to hide then fine. If he does...it'll come out eventually. The diff between flights to Amsterdam and flights to Bulgaria: about three hours flight time and £300. I WILL know.

What's the bet that I am now getting all my ducks in a row and will be booking a consultation with a solicitor next week while he's off on his holiday?

Yes, the rage is definitely hitting now.

Brandon808 posted 1/23/2014 18:30 PM

So sorry you're going through this.

File and protect yourself.

Skan posted 1/23/2014 20:07 PM

If it looks like a duck and quacks like a duck, it's definitely time to get YOUR ducks in a row. (((hugs)))

hangingonin posted 1/24/2014 03:17 AM

Agree it seems odd to be babel to organis something that fast. I really feel for you. Definitely see a solicitor. ((Hugs))

grownapair posted 1/24/2014 08:04 AM

Skan - If it quacked any more, I'd think I was in a pond!

I sent a very pointed message this morning asking for a copy of the airlines itinerary. If I don't get it, that's it.

Also, I got home today and there's a new mobile phone agreement and direct debit in WH's name for a new (non-work, his mobile is through his employer) phone. Last time, it was to message the foreign OW. Hahaha....quack quack quack! He says it's so he can get away from everything for the week. QUACK!

Honestly, if I couldn't laugh, all I'd do is cry. Onward.