Today is OW's Husband's birthday. We were very close and had a friendship of many years.
I have been thinking of breaking no contact and texting him to wish him a happy birthday not because I really want to wish him a happy birthday but because I know it will ruin OW's day when he tells her I text. I am the BS by the way, before anyone freaks out on me.
I never told OW's BS about the A. I worried that he would leave her as this is not her first A and they have 4 children.
On 2/8 it will be 2 years since D-Day.
I have not told WH of my intensions to text OW BS. I am concerned that my texting him might give her incentive to communicate with WH. In reality, I don't know if OW and WH have really maintained NC all this time.
I don't know what I want to do...