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User Topic: Scared
roarlouder
♀ 40921
Member # 40921
Default  Posted: 12:21 AM, January 24th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I left last night.., I know it's what I needed to do. I am so nervous he's going to be nasty and sneaky financially and I didn't have a chance to get any documents, etc.

It was so empowering to leave, but so shitty to feel so vulnerable right now.


DDay-sept 2013
1LTA(5yrs) plus many ONS
Divorcing.
No kids

Posts: 356 | Registered: Oct 2013
Jrazz
♀ 31349
Member # 31349
Default  Posted: 1:32 AM, January 24th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((roarlouder)))


"Welcome the rawness of vulnerability as an opportunity to open." - Pema Chodron

Me: BW 35
Crazz: WH 33
Daughter: 4.5 Going on 16


Posts: 18698 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: California
Softcentre
39166
Member # 39166
Default  Posted: 1:56 AM, January 24th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I hear you ((hugs))


Me: BW
Him: STBXWH 'The Arse' - passive aggressive, tt'ing, gaslighting...multiple EA's with different women (1 'proven') and at least 1 PA

Took a while, but I like the me I am, without him.

"Until God opens the next do


Posts: 1117 | Registered: May 2013 | From: UK
roarlouder
♀ 40921
Member # 40921
Default  Posted: 3:27 AM, January 24th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

And it shouldn't matter, but I wonder who is on my house tonight? I just had an additional woman confirmed tonight (I had pretty much figured out)... I told a friend I left, and she said I need to tell you a story I heard 6 months ago.

There's no question this is what I need to be doing. I just wonder when the urge to drive by my house in the middle if the sleepless night will pass?


DDay-sept 2013
1LTA(5yrs) plus many ONS
Divorcing.
No kids

Posts: 356 | Registered: Oct 2013
nowiknow23
♀ 33226
Member # 33226
Default  Posted: 8:10 AM, January 24th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((((roarlouder))))) That urge passes, honey. I'm glad you are safe.


You can call me NIK

"Keep your face always toward the sunshine - and shadows will fall behind you."
-Walt Whitman


Posts: 26516 | Registered: Aug 2011
JerseyCowgirl
♀ 41441
Member # 41441
Default  Posted: 8:18 AM, January 24th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

You will get through this. He probably will become nasty so be prepared.

Today I will keep you in my thoughts ... safety for you and that peace will come to you now.

It is not fair you have to leave and the changes will be overwhelming at times but know I will be thinking good thoughts all day for you.


Me: Divorced 2012
I know that when I truly love & honor myself I am at my best & most complete; and I will never settle for anything less from myself or from anyone else ever again!

Posts: 348 | Registered: Nov 2013 | From: Have not decided where to land yet!
roarlouder
♀ 40921
Member # 40921
Default  Posted: 12:34 PM, January 24th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thank you for the support. I am surrounded by amazing family, friends, bosses. I wish I would have been legally better prepared before I left, but I couldn't pretend and I just needed out.

5 hours of sleep in 2 days isn't quite cutting it either


DDay-sept 2013
1LTA(5yrs) plus many ONS
Divorcing.
No kids

Posts: 356 | Registered: Oct 2013
Topic Posts: 7

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