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Topic: Scared
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roarlouder
♀ 40921
Member # 40921 |  Posted: 12:21 AM, January 24th (Friday), 2014 |     |
I left last night.., I know it's what I needed to do. I am so nervous he's going to be nasty and sneaky financially and I didn't have a chance to get any documents, etc.
It was so empowering to leave, but so shitty to feel so vulnerable right now.
DDay-sept 2013
1LTA(5yrs) plus many ONS
Divorcing.
No kids
Posts: 356 | Registered: Oct 2013 |
Jrazz
♀ 31349
Member # 31349 | | Posted: 1:32 AM, January 24th (Friday), 2014 | |
(((roarlouder)))
"All the wars, all the hatred, all the ignorance in the world come out of being so invested in our opinions. And at bottom, those opinions are merely our efforts to escape the underlying uneasiness of being human. - Pema Chodron
Posts: 20916 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: California |
Softcentre
39166
Member # 39166 | | Posted: 1:56 AM, January 24th (Friday), 2014 | |
I hear you ((hugs))
Me: BW
Him: STBXWH 'The Arse' - Unremorseful passive aggressive blameshifter. Many EA's & at least 1 PA. Dday Aug 2012. Walked out April 2013. Demanded D, now stalling
ds5, ds7
Took a while, but I like the me I am, without him
Posts: 1239 | Registered: May 2013 | From: UK |
roarlouder
♀ 40921
Member # 40921 | | Posted: 3:27 AM, January 24th (Friday), 2014 | |
And it shouldn't matter, but I wonder who is on my house tonight? I just had an additional woman confirmed tonight (I had pretty much figured out)... I told a friend I left, and she said I need to tell you a story I heard 6 months ago.
There's no question this is what I need to be doing. I just wonder when the urge to drive by my house in the middle if the sleepless night will pass?
DDay-sept 2013
1LTA(5yrs) plus many ONS
Divorcing.
No kids
Posts: 356 | Registered: Oct 2013 |
nowiknow23
♀ 33226
Member # 33226 | | Posted: 8:10 AM, January 24th (Friday), 2014 | |
(((((roarlouder))))) That urge passes, honey. I'm glad you are safe.
You can call me NIK
“The most difficult times for many of us are the ones we give ourselves.”
― Pema Chödrön
Posts: 28327 | Registered: Aug 2011 |
JerseyCowgirl
♀ 41441
Member # 41441 | | Posted: 8:18 AM, January 24th (Friday), 2014 | |
You will get through this. He probably will become nasty so be prepared.
Today I will keep you in my thoughts ... safety for you and that peace will come to you now.
It is not fair you have to leave and the changes will be overwhelming at times but know I will be thinking good thoughts all day for you.
Me: Divorced 2012
I know that when I truly love & honor myself I am at my best & most complete; and I will never settle for anything less from myself or from anyone else ever again!
Posts: 348 | Registered: Nov 2013 | From: SWFL |
roarlouder
♀ 40921
Member # 40921 | | Posted: 12:34 PM, January 24th (Friday), 2014 | |
Thank you for the support. I am surrounded by amazing family, friends, bosses. I wish I would have been legally better prepared before I left, but I couldn't pretend and I just needed out.
5 hours of sleep in 2 days isn't quite cutting it either
DDay-sept 2013
1LTA(5yrs) plus many ONS
Divorcing.
No kids
Posts: 356 | Registered: Oct 2013 |
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