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roarlouder posted 1/24/2014 00:21 AM

I left last night.., I know it's what I needed to do. I am so nervous he's going to be nasty and sneaky financially and I didn't have a chance to get any documents, etc.

It was so empowering to leave, but so shitty to feel so vulnerable right now.

Jrazz posted 1/24/2014 01:32 AM

(((roarlouder)))

Softcentre posted 1/24/2014 01:56 AM

I hear you ((hugs))

roarlouder posted 1/24/2014 03:27 AM

And it shouldn't matter, but I wonder who is on my house tonight? I just had an additional woman confirmed tonight (I had pretty much figured out)... I told a friend I left, and she said I need to tell you a story I heard 6 months ago.

There's no question this is what I need to be doing. I just wonder when the urge to drive by my house in the middle if the sleepless night will pass?

nowiknow23 posted 1/24/2014 08:10 AM

(((((roarlouder))))) That urge passes, honey. I'm glad you are safe.

JerseyCowgirl posted 1/24/2014 08:18 AM

You will get through this. He probably will become nasty so be prepared.

Today I will keep you in my thoughts ... safety for you and that peace will come to you now.

It is not fair you have to leave and the changes will be overwhelming at times but know I will be thinking good thoughts all day for you.

roarlouder posted 1/24/2014 12:34 PM

Thank you for the support. I am surrounded by amazing family, friends, bosses. I wish I would have been legally better prepared before I left, but I couldn't pretend and I just needed out.

5 hours of sleep in 2 days isn't quite cutting it either