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roarlouder (original poster member #40921) posted at 6:21 AM on Friday, January 24th, 2014
I left last night.., I know it's what I needed to do. I am so nervous he's going to be nasty and sneaky financially and I didn't have a chance to get any documents, etc.
It was so empowering to leave, but so shitty to feel so vulnerable right now.
DDay-sept 2013
1LTA(5yrs) plus many ONS
Divorcing.
No kids
Jrazz ( member #31349) posted at 7:32 AM on Friday, January 24th, 2014
"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." - Deeply Scared's mom
Softcentre ( member #39166) posted at 7:56 AM on Friday, January 24th, 2014
Me: BW
Him: XWH
2 Children
Finally reached indifference & looking forward to my new beginning
roarlouder (original poster member #40921) posted at 9:27 AM on Friday, January 24th, 2014
And it shouldn't matter, but I wonder who is on my house tonight? I just had an additional woman confirmed tonight (I had pretty much figured out)... I told a friend I left, and she said I need to tell you a story I heard 6 months ago.
There's no question this is what I need to be doing. I just wonder when the urge to drive by my house in the middle if the sleepless night will pass?
DDay-sept 2013
1LTA(5yrs) plus many ONS
Divorcing.
No kids
nowiknow23 ( member #33226) posted at 2:10 PM on Friday, January 24th, 2014
(((((roarlouder))))) That urge passes, honey. I'm glad you are safe.
You can call me NIK
And never grow a wishbone, daughter, where your backbone ought to be.
― Sarah McMane
JerseyCowgirl ( member #41441) posted at 2:18 PM on Friday, January 24th, 2014
You will get through this. He probably will become nasty so be prepared.
Today I will keep you in my thoughts ... safety for you and that peace will come to you now.
It is not fair you have to leave and the changes will be overwhelming at times but know I will be thinking good thoughts all day for you.
Me: Divorced 2012
I know that when I truly love & honor myself I am at my best & most complete; and I will never settle for anything less from myself or from anyone else ever again!
roarlouder (original poster member #40921) posted at 6:34 PM on Friday, January 24th, 2014
Thank you for the support. I am surrounded by amazing family, friends, bosses. I wish I would have been legally better prepared before I left, but I couldn't pretend and I just needed out.
5 hours of sleep in 2 days isn't quite cutting it either
DDay-sept 2013
1LTA(5yrs) plus many ONS
Divorcing.
No kids
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