..are there still issues unresolved from his A?
..are you detaching slowly.. becoming less and less connected?
..are you just in a funk and maybe in a few days, you'll feel better?
..have you had a vacation from each other in the last year??
..are you and he connecting on 'any' level?
..has your M just turned into 'blah'.. no zip, no life, no more highs?
..can you do something to turn that around?
..would you want to?
sorry you're feeling so bummed out.. many of us here, will second guess our choice to stay, especially those in a long established M.
..sleep on it and see what the morning brings...
..take care of you, first and foremost!!