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User Topic: so sad
Gajit
♀ 40665
Member # 40665
Default  Posted: 7:09 PM, January 24th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I find this forum helpful in a lot of ways.
That being said...I feel so lonely in my battle, and it is a battle right now.

I don't have the energy anymore.
I just don't.

So. Damn. Tired.


Lord, with Your help I will focus on each small step of the climb, instead of the mountain that stands before me.

Posts: 224 | Registered: Sep 2013 | From: USA
caregiver9000
♀ 28622
Member # 28622
Default  Posted: 7:17 PM, January 24th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

It is a battle. I am sorry you are battle weary. I understand.

(((hugs)))


Me: 44, independent, happy, despite co-parenting with a lower muppet
FT "Stretch" (and Skew!) ;)
DS 13 DS 10
S 5/2010
D 12/2012

Posts: 5938 | Registered: May 2010 | From: a better place
Dobegirl
♀ 41837
Member # 41837
Default  Posted: 7:57 PM, January 24th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I am right there with you honey. ((((Hugs)))


Me- BS 44 Always faithfull
Him- WS 44
2 mo. EA/PA with 25 yr. old slut that stroked his ego, OL profiles, CL ads
Married 8 years-No kids together
DDay-11/21/12
False R many different times fromJan/13 till Dec/14
Time is a thief when your undecided

Posts: 154 | Registered: Dec 2013 | From: Northern Indiana
yestopants
♀ 41631
Member # 41631
Default  Posted: 8:40 PM, January 24th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((Gajit))) yes it is a battle but you are not alone. It's okay to not have energy. It's okay to be tired.


Me: 35
STBXWH: 38
2 amazing kids DS DD
almost Divorced!

Posts: 286 | Registered: Dec 2013
allyk2014
♀ 41688
Member # 41688
Default  Posted: 9:26 PM, January 24th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Completely understand. (((((Hugs))))))


Me: 38
WH: 43 Narcissist
Currently separated

Posts: 32 | Registered: Dec 2013
macakipa
♀ 33735
Member # 33735
Default  Posted: 8:17 AM, January 25th (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((Gajit))), totally natural and understandable.

It is the part of the nightmare that weighs us down to the point that we feel the only relief would be to admit defeat.

Hang in there. Stay strong. You CAN finish the battle. I promise you.

Re-energize. Take a day just for you. Go for a walk, run, massage, anything that will help ease the stress.


M -25 years, T - 31 years, 4 children
Dday October 8, 2011 - Multiple PAs and ONs
Divorced 1-8-13
"When you give a lot of importance to someone in your life, you lose your importance in their life."

Posts: 952 | Registered: Oct 2011
SusanR
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Member # 29368
Default  Posted: 8:18 AM, January 25th (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((Gajit))) Hang in there!

Posts: 1964 | Registered: Aug 2010 | From: Midwest
Chrysalis123
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Default  Posted: 8:50 AM, January 25th (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((((Gajit)))))


Donít get to the end of your life and find that you lived only the length of it; live the width of it as well.†

Posts: 2819 | Registered: Jan 2010
BAB61
♀ 41181
Member # 41181
Default  Posted: 11:08 PM, January 25th (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((gajit))) I feel that way some days too! Just keep on keeping on! This whole infidelity crap sandwich just really sucks!! This too will pass ... that's what I keep saying to myself. Just one day at a time, just one foot in front of the other.


Boss A** B*tch
BS/52 Me, STBXpos/56, dd's 16&14
1st D-day 10/19/2013 EA/PA
2nd D-day 12/7/2013 LTA/Rendezvous
S 12/7/2013 No-fault state, 6 mo S, counting down the days.

Posts: 1271 | Registered: Oct 2013 | From: DE
mof2
♀ 40287
Member # 40287
Default  Posted: 11:25 PM, January 25th (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

((((gait))))) it really is a hard battle but one you will win. Please hang in there and understand that you deserve so much better!


BW - Me 43
WH - Cheating Swine 43
Dday - February 12, 2013....a week before I was to give birth to the child I miscarried and 12 days before our 5th anniversary.

Posts: 316 | Registered: Aug 2013 | From: DFW
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