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But, not because of me. My H woke up scared, shaking and nauseous. He had a pretty intense dream that I was cheating on him. I walked away from him just as we were getting warmed up, disappeared for 20 minutes and came back to him, started where we left off as I told him flippantly that I'd left to go be with someone else. I empathized with his pain, reassured him and then we held each other until we went to sleep. I hope this isn't the start of a pattern.

My wife had a couple of rotten dreams about me this week. I had to reassure her that they were just dreams. Boy did she get mad at me for stranding her in New York City and looking at another woman's boobs on her phone, though!

This has happened to her before, and it is a bit of a pattern, but usually only lasts for a day or two and usually not more than once every couple of years. Hopefully this is just a temporary thing for your husband as well.