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Smashedat58 posted 1/26/2014 10:37 AM

Hi all, I' m on my way to getting a collaborative divorce, with no regrets. I have let go of the false future I thought I had. My problem, now, is that I can't bear to see WH to get our financial information documented. I know I have to do this, but I know I'll be nasty to him. He's such an unbelievably selfish pig, that he still thinks he's a great guy for helping me get the information that I am entitled to. It would be so much easier if he showed the least amount of remorse. I had to put him off today, because I didn't sleep well last night, and I told him I was sick. He came over, anyway, to his mother's house next door, and I'm just waiting for him to leave, so I can do what I want to, today. Anybody else ever feel this way, trapped, or in a rut?

Nature_Girl posted 1/26/2014 14:52 PM

I don't understand the dilemma. Maybe I'm not reading your post correctly. You say you're going for a collaborative divorce, but then say you don't want to share the data necessary to make that happen. Is that right?

GabyBaby posted 1/26/2014 15:06 PM

I read it as Smashed doesn't want to see her STBXWH in order to get the data.

Smashedat58 posted 1/26/2014 15:14 PM

That's it, I feel sick at having to see the WH. I'm stuck on this.

Nature_Girl posted 1/26/2014 15:25 PM

Then may I suggest scanning & emailing the data? That's how most of the data I got from my ex came. Scanned into a pdf and emailed.

Smashedat58 posted 1/26/2014 15:36 PM

Trying to do this as we speak.

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