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I realize- I need to be stronger than him!!

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mj052 posted 1/26/2014 10:39 AM

Which shouldn't be hard considering wh is a needy ball of fluff!!

When I watched him last year as he flirted outrageously with a previous female co-worker at a baseball game who he hasn't seen in over 14 years- my eyes were wide open!! The man who I was watching- I didn't recognize at all!! I convinced myself that maybe I was being paranoid- but there was something about his "friendliness" that was creepy!! I too- knew this woman when she worked with my wh!! Her laughing at his every remark was just nauseating!! But- the once skinny woman had put on 80lbs since he had last seen her!! I had nothing to worry about right? She was so hideous that he didn't even recognize her!! And I'm 5'8 and 118lbs- thanks to the infidelity diet- so he'd never go there- not in a million years- yeah right!!

Well- to make a long story short- she was yet another inapproptiate relationship or ap#- who knows!! Apparently-- the only thing that matters to wh is how these lonely and desperate women make him feel!! Me- I'm so done and planning my escape!! By the time that I'm done with him- he'll be living in a shack on the south side of town or better yet- living with one of his pos sluts- let's see how fun and exciting that would be!! Meeting with someone to jump into a backseat is much different than living with someone!!

I wonder who he'll choose to be his next fool!! In the meantime- getting my ducks in a row- I can't wait to blindside the humongous pos!!!!

[This message edited by mj052 at 10:55 AM, January 26th (Sunday)]

Chippednotbroken posted 1/26/2014 10:42 AM

You go MJ - bitch boots as they say!

GingerAle posted 1/26/2014 12:35 PM

She was so hideous that he didn't even recognize her!! And I'm 5'8 and 118lbs- thanks to the infidelity diet- so he'd never go there- not in a million years- yeah right!!

Well- to make a long story short- she was yet another inapproptiate relationship or ap#- who knows!! Apparently-- the only thing that matters to wh is how these lonely and desperate women make him feel!! Me- I'm so done and planning my escape!!

I know just what you mean! All three of my WH's OW were ones that I would have thought "he wouldn't go there" or "she is not his type, I have nothing to worry about". Ha ha! Boy was I wrong. For him it has nothing to do with their looks or personality. It has everything to do with the attention and adoration they give him. And now he is being quite the KISA to a couple of women at work (it's a new job). His last job is where he was so special and attentive to OW 2 & 3.

It's gotten to the point where it just grosses me out. I am happy for you that you have come to the point that you realize how much better off you are without him. I know it's a long and painful process to get there, but you are stronger and better than him, and have an amazing future free of the craziness ahead of you

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