Topic: My Mum passed away...
Member # 6850
| Posted: 10:53 PM, January 27th (Monday), 2014|
My wonderful little Mum passed away last night after being ill with pneumonia for close to two weeks. She had not responded to the antibiotics, the stress on her body (she was 85) caused her to have a heart attack, and they questioned a stroke because she had lost the ability to swallow and speak properly.
She died peacefully with my sister and I by her side. I would not wish her back to suffer, but miss her so much already.
Mum was a wonderful, strong lady who raised the five of us to be good people. We are honouring her with a celebration of her life on Saturday. So many friends considered my parents to be "adopted" Mum & Dad over the years....there was always room for one more at the table, or a listening ear for all of us and our friends.
My Dad passed away over thirteen years ago, and yesterday I felt him come and take Mum with him.
I know they are having a wonderful "catch up" and looking down on all of us telling us to carry on and be strong.
I love you Mum and miss you....rest in peace...
You can't reach for anything new if your hands are still full of yesterday's junk.......Louise Smith
Posts: 4869 | Registered: Apr 2005 | From: Ontario
Member # 36072
| Posted: 10:55 PM, January 27th (Monday), 2014|
I am so sorry for your loss.
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Member # 20563
| Posted: 10:57 PM, January 27th (Monday), 2014|
(((Moving)))) what a beautiful tribute to your Mother and wonderful legacy.
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Posts: 7473 | Registered: Aug 2008 | From: Not Oz
Member # 33226
| Posted: 11:00 PM, January 27th (Monday), 2014|
(((((movingforward))))) I am so sorry for your loss, honey. Sending you strength and comfort as you and your family come together to remember and honor her.
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Posts: 35346 | Registered: Aug 2011
Member # 31528
| Posted: 11:01 PM, January 27th (Monday), 2014|
I am so sorry for your loss.
Posts: 44515 | Registered: Mar 2011
Member # 31349
| Posted: 11:33 PM, January 27th (Monday), 2014|
She is most certainly at peace, and with your father. I'm so sorry for your loss. She will be with you always.
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Posts: 27073 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: California
Member # 22800
| Posted: 11:43 PM, January 27th (Monday), 2014|
I'm so sorry. My heart goes out to you.
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Member # 34431
| Posted: 12:41 AM, January 28th (Tuesday), 2014|
I'm so very sorry for your loss. She sounds like an amazing woman.
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Posts: 1351 | Registered: Jan 2012 | From: US
Member # 36445
| Posted: 3:19 AM, January 28th (Tuesday), 2014|
I am sorry for your loss.
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Posts: 1530 | Registered: Aug 2012 | From: Australia
Member # 29341
| Posted: 3:47 AM, January 28th (Tuesday), 2014|
I'm so sorry for your loss .
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Posts: 7716 | Registered: Aug 2010 | From: The land of a thousand guilts and poured cement
Member # 11692
| Posted: 6:43 AM, January 28th (Tuesday), 2014|
(((Moving))) Sending thoughts of peace and healing to you and your family. I am so sorry for your loss.
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Posts: 6621 | Registered: Aug 2006 | From: Massachusetts
Member # 34722
| Posted: 6:46 AM, January 28th (Tuesday), 2014|
I'm so sorry for your loss. It sounds like you have wonderful memories.
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Posts: 3188 | Registered: Feb 2012 | From: the Other Side
Member # 30498
| Posted: 7:28 AM, January 28th (Tuesday), 2014|
So sorry for your loss.
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Posts: 1102 | Registered: Dec 2010 | From: Adelaide, South Australia
Member # 12041
| Posted: 7:48 AM, January 28th (Tuesday), 2014|
I am so sorry for your loss movingforward.
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Member # 2
| Posted: 7:53 AM, January 28th (Tuesday), 2014|
I'm so sorry for your loss
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Member # 26531
| Posted: 7:54 AM, January 28th (Tuesday), 2014|
I am so sorry for your loss.
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Him: FWSO - 70
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R - he finally came home
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Posts: 25543 | Registered: Dec 2009 | From: Florida
Member # 15300
| Posted: 7:55 AM, January 28th (Tuesday), 2014|
I'm sad for you, movingforward, but so happy that you can remember your Mum with such love and gratitude. Take care.
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Posts: 8467 | Registered: Jul 2007 | From: Toronto, Canada
Member # 39560
| Posted: 7:57 AM, January 28th (Tuesday), 2014|
I am so sorry to hear about your Mum. She sounds like a warm, loving person who raised the same type of children. Her legacy lives on forever. ((((((movingforward)))))
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Posts: 463 | Registered: Jun 2013 | From: Northeast
Member # 25001
| Posted: 8:17 AM, January 28th (Tuesday), 2014|
Me - BS, 40 (I'm not old...I'm vintage)
Two Wonderful children - DS11, DD8
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Posts: 6115 | Registered: Jul 2009 | From: In the darkest depths of hell!
Member # 32811
| Posted: 8:18 AM, January 28th (Tuesday), 2014|
(((((movingforward777 & Womderful little Mum))))) You are in my prayers...
I'm sorry for you loss. Now she is no longer hurting. Again, I am so sorry!
Posts: 2609 | Registered: Jul 2011 | From: With my dad...and my dogs (Truffle and Cashmere).
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