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Itsgoingtobeok (original poster member #37664) posted at 4:58 PM on Tuesday, January 28th, 2014
Recovery for the most part is going well but when we go out there are times she will wear a tight outfit and I will catch her glacing at other men . This doesn't seem healthy
BS-(52)
WS-49
married 28 yrs
Kid's -2
A- several
DD- 12-10-12
Starting recovery
"I don't understand the world today I don't understand what she needs I gave her everything she threw it all away" tom petty
rachelc ( member #30314) posted at 5:06 PM on Tuesday, January 28th, 2014
My WH looked at other women for a year! I called him on it every time. Our MC called him on it. He posted a picture of himself on facebook coming out of the ocean looking like a bronzed adonis. You have a right to be concerned. STILL looking for external validation.
kalimata ( member #42104) posted at 6:51 PM on Tuesday, January 28th, 2014
You need to tell your WW to stop dressing in such tight clothing because it makes you feel uncomfortable when other men look at her. She needs to stop, period. She obviously hasn't understood this.
wert ( member #34478) posted at 6:56 PM on Tuesday, January 28th, 2014
What a great opportunity you have. Tell her how you feel about it. Tell her it seems she is continuing to look for external validation from men. Then see what she says. Her reaction should be telling regarding her progress towards authenticity.
take care...
Aubrie ( member #33886) posted at 7:01 PM on Tuesday, January 28th, 2014
I agree with wert.
Tell her how you feel about it. See what her reaction is. Defensiveness = trouble.
"Courage is being scared to death and saddling up anyway." - J. Wayne
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