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User Topic: does your WW do this
Itsgoingtobeok
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Default  Posted: 10:58 AM, January 28th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Recovery for the most part is going well but when we go out there are times she will wear a tight outfit and I will catch her glacing at other men . This doesn't seem healthy


BS-(52)
WS-49
married 28 yrs
Kid's -2
A- several
DD- 12-10-12
Starting recovery

"I don't understand the world today I don't understand what she needs I gave her everything she threw it all away" tom petty


Posts: 216 | Registered: Dec 2012 | From: Los Angeles
rachelc
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Default  Posted: 11:06 AM, January 28th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

My WH looked at other women for a year! I called him on it every time. Our MC called him on it. He posted a picture of himself on facebook coming out of the ocean looking like a bronzed adonis. You have a right to be concerned. STILL looking for external validation.


his Dday: 2/10 but TT until 7/11
my Ddays: 1/12, 4/12 broken NC 12/12

me (WW/BS): 48
him: (BS/WH)52
4 kiddos in mid 20's

“Follow your intuition. Be smart, be brave. Tell the truth and don’t take any shit.”


Posts: 5530 | Registered: Dec 2010 | From: Midwest
kalimata
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Default  Posted: 12:51 PM, January 28th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

You need to tell your WW to stop dressing in such tight clothing because it makes you feel uncomfortable when other men look at her. She needs to stop, period. She obviously hasn't understood this.

Posts: 191 | Registered: Jan 2014 | From: USA
wert
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Default  Posted: 12:56 PM, January 28th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

What a great opportunity you have. Tell her how you feel about it. Tell her it seems she is continuing to look for external validation from men. Then see what she says. Her reaction should be telling regarding her progress towards authenticity.

take care...



Posts: 1447 | Registered: Jan 2012
Aubrie
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Default  Posted: 1:01 PM, January 28th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I agree with wert.

Tell her how you feel about it. See what her reaction is. Defensiveness = trouble.


Me - FWW * Him - QuietStand

"Courage is being scared to death and saddling up anyway." - J. Wayne


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