SurvivingInfidelity.com Forum Archives

You are not logged in. Login here or register.

[Register]

Newest Member: DanteValentine (46584)

User

Topic: does your WW do this

Itsgoingtobeok
♂ 37664
Member # 37664

Posted: 10:58 AM, January 28th (Tuesday), 2014

Recovery for the most part is going well but when we go out there are times she will wear a tight outfit and I will catch her glacing at other men . This doesn't seem healthy

BS-(52)
WS-49
married 28 yrs
Kid's -2
A- several
DD- 12-10-12
Starting recovery

"I don't understand the world today I don't understand what she needs I gave her everything she threw it all away" tom petty

Posts: 216 | Registered: Dec 2012 | From: Los Angeles

rachelc
♀ 30314
Member # 30314

Posted: 11:06 AM, January 28th (Tuesday), 2014

My WH looked at other women for a year! I called him on it every time. Our MC called him on it. He posted a picture of himself on facebook coming out of the ocean looking like a bronzed adonis. You have a right to be concerned. STILL looking for external validation.

his Dday: 2/10 but TT until 7/11
my Ddays: 1/12, 4/12 broken NC 12/12

me (WW/BS): 48
him: (BS/WH)52
4 kiddos in mid 20's

“Most things will be okay eventually, but not everything will be. Acceptance is a small, quiet room.”

Posts: 6148 | Registered: Dec 2010 | From: Midwest

kalimata
♂ 42104
Member # 42104

Posted: 12:51 PM, January 28th (Tuesday), 2014

You need to tell your WW to stop dressing in such tight clothing because it makes you feel uncomfortable when other men look at her. She needs to stop, period. She obviously hasn't understood this.

Posts: 191 | Registered: Jan 2014 | From: USA

wert
♂ 34478
Member # 34478

Posted: 12:56 PM, January 28th (Tuesday), 2014

What a great opportunity you have. Tell her how you feel about it. Tell her it seems she is continuing to look for external validation from men. Then see what she says. Her reaction should be telling regarding her progress towards authenticity.

take care...

Posts: 1470 | Registered: Jan 2012

Aubrie
♀ 33886
Member # 33886

Posted: 1:01 PM, January 28th (Tuesday), 2014

I agree with wert.

Tell her how you feel about it. See what her reaction is. Defensiveness = trouble.

"Courage is being scared to death and saddling up anyway." - J. Wayne

Posts: 6666 | Registered: Nov 2011

Topic Posts: 5

Return to Forum

This Topic is Archived