I read here in one of the posts someone talking about their WS that wasn't doing enough, then BS proposes a divorce and WS says ok if this is what you want... My husband said the same thing last year when things were so on fire. He said if it is what you really want, and I believe your chances of finding a man better than me are huge!!
[This message edited by Lostinthismess at 2:25 PM, January 28th (Tuesday)]
If you guys aren't both putting into the relationship what the other person needs, then you both need help fixing it.
"You can't fix a broken man, but he can break you"
Here's what you do. Tell your husband that you are attracted to someone else, and who it is. That will take your feelings out of the perfect bubble they are in.
It could break you up, or it could push you to the next level of R. If he is really in R, he will come to respect you for NOT acting on attraction, for turning towards him rather than demonizing him. Either way--your crush will be out of the picture and that's what you need--to focus on reality.
[This message edited by I think I can at 8:29 PM, January 29th (Wednesday)]