Tomorrow will be one year,which is both
My question is whether or not I remind H about it. He and I did have a discussion about it last week,during which I said that January 29th is going to be a rough day...he asked why. Yeah-he had genuinely forgot. I explained that it would stir up a lot of feelings for me,that despite all our progress,it would likely throw me right back to the way I felt "then". We talked about how it was important that he take the time that day to make me feel special,that I want there to be no room for even thoughts of the OW,I just want him to focus on us.
Do I trust that he remembers? Is it passive/aggressive to make this a test of how much he pays attention to our R issues,or do I say something? If I say something,how does that go? If I don't and he forgets,how do I handle it? I'm just a big bundle of feelings right now,and having a hard time sorting through them all.