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imagoodwitch posted 1/28/2014 15:20 PM

5 days ago to be specific. OW and her BH, he is listed first.

Lord help me!

Part of me wants to call him to see what was up but I know better.

I don't know what to feel!

MovingUpward posted 1/28/2014 15:22 PM

Your feelings should only be reflected by the actions of your spouse. Don't let OW cause unnecessary panic. If you need to verify more often your H's actions then do so. Just because OW is D'ed doesn't mean that your H is back in an A.

GotMyLifeBck2013 posted 1/28/2014 15:24 PM

Happy. She paid the price for her shitty behavior. He walks away with his head held high.

imagoodwitch posted 1/28/2014 15:34 PM

I don't think I am worried about my WS per say, he can go if he wants to.

In a way I want to high-five her BH!

sadinlex posted 1/28/2014 15:36 PM

In a way I want to high-five her BH!



GotMyLifeBck2013 posted 1/28/2014 15:37 PM

You should. Every betrayed spouse should get recognition for taking their own control of their own life back, whether it's in R or D.

We coddle the waywards too much with excuses and psychobabble. The party is with the BS's...

imagoodwitch posted 1/28/2014 16:59 PM

I feel bad that I'm almost giddy!

Is it karma or a consequence?

Bless her BH, he didn't deserve it.

Hopefully he has closure and a fair custody schedule.

sadinlex posted 1/28/2014 18:36 PM

karma, consequence... I guess sometimes karma is the consequence

Bless her BH, he didn't deserve it.

He did not, but he deserves to be rid of her.

undertherug posted 1/28/2014 19:20 PM

Yeah, when you make an addition error in your checkbook, that is a mistake. A affair is a conscious choice!

imagoodwitch posted 1/28/2014 21:10 PM

We are coming up on the 5 year antiversary of DDay. I guess I have been waiting for this day since then.

I have no idea what compelled me to google him today.

OnAnIsland posted 1/29/2014 02:44 AM

Good for her BH. Stay strong. Do what you need to do. consequence, karma, whatever.

About a year after WH and marriedOW last saw each other, I googled her randomly. I wasn't doing it regularly, but just thought i should. Anyway, this led to d day somenumbergreaterthan1. I found out she was due to be in the same place we were in a few weeks. I told wh after shifting our travel to an alternate weekend. not a surprise to him. somehow he figured breaking no contact wouldn't hurt anyone. kind of like the affair wouldn't. SO something to that coincidence of you checking and finding out 5 days after decree.

Take care. you are a good witch. me too.

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