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imagoodwitch (original poster member #23375) posted at 9:20 PM on Tuesday, January 28th, 2014
5 days ago to be specific. OW and her BH, he is listed first.
Lord help me!
Part of me wants to call him to see what was up but I know better.
I don't know what to feel!
Ordinary average everyday sane psycho super goddess
MovingUpward ( member #14866) posted at 9:22 PM on Tuesday, January 28th, 2014
Your feelings should only be reflected by the actions of your spouse. Don't let OW cause unnecessary panic. If you need to verify more often your H's actions then do so. Just because OW is D'ed doesn't mean that your H is back in an A.
GotMyLifeBck2013 ( member #40531) posted at 9:24 PM on Tuesday, January 28th, 2014
Happy. She paid the price for her shitty behavior. He walks away with his head held high.
I define me! I don't just survive, I thrive!!
Me: fBH 46
Her: exWW 42
DDay: Nov 1, 2012
Divorced: September 17, 2013
imagoodwitch (original poster member #23375) posted at 9:34 PM on Tuesday, January 28th, 2014
I don't think I am worried about my WS per say, he can go if he wants to.
In a way I want to high-five her BH!
Ordinary average everyday sane psycho super goddess
sadinlex ( member #32047) posted at 9:36 PM on Tuesday, January 28th, 2014
In a way I want to high-five her BH!
Karma! 
((((imagoodwitch))))
me - BW him - WH
Dday - 4/11/2011 double betrayal
"After the A, being honest and being a bitch are pretty hard to tell apart." - Ladyogilvy
"A successful marriage requires falling in love many times, always with the same person."
GotMyLifeBck2013 ( member #40531) posted at 9:37 PM on Tuesday, January 28th, 2014
You should. Every betrayed spouse should get recognition for taking their own control of their own life back, whether it's in R or D.
We coddle the waywards too much with excuses and psychobabble. The party is with the BS's...
I define me! I don't just survive, I thrive!!
Me: fBH 46
Her: exWW 42
DDay: Nov 1, 2012
Divorced: September 17, 2013
imagoodwitch (original poster member #23375) posted at 10:59 PM on Tuesday, January 28th, 2014
I feel bad that I'm almost giddy!
Is it karma or a consequence?
Bless her BH, he didn't deserve it.
Hopefully he has closure and a fair custody schedule.
Ordinary average everyday sane psycho super goddess
sadinlex ( member #32047) posted at 12:36 AM on Wednesday, January 29th, 2014
karma, consequence... I guess sometimes karma is the consequence
Bless her BH, he didn't deserve it.
He did not, but he deserves to be rid of her.
me - BW him - WH
Dday - 4/11/2011 double betrayal
"After the A, being honest and being a bitch are pretty hard to tell apart." - Ladyogilvy
"A successful marriage requires falling in love many times, always with the same person."
undertherug ( member #41580) posted at 1:20 AM on Wednesday, January 29th, 2014
Yeah, when you make an addition error in your checkbook, that is a mistake. A affair is a conscious choice!
imagoodwitch (original poster member #23375) posted at 3:10 AM on Wednesday, January 29th, 2014
We are coming up on the 5 year antiversary of DDay. I guess I have been waiting for this day since then.
I have no idea what compelled me to google him today.
Ordinary average everyday sane psycho super goddess
OnAnIsland ( member #34319) posted at 8:44 AM on Wednesday, January 29th, 2014
Good for her BH. Stay strong. Do what you need to do. consequence, karma, whatever.
About a year after WH and marriedOW last saw each other, I googled her randomly. I wasn't doing it regularly, but just thought i should. Anyway, this led to d day somenumbergreaterthan1. I found out she was due to be in the same place we were in a few weeks. I told wh after shifting our travel to an alternate weekend. not a surprise to him. somehow he figured breaking no contact wouldn't hurt anyone. kind of like the affair wouldn't. SO something to that coincidence of you checking and finding out 5 days after decree.
Take care. you are a good witch. me too.
D-day: Christmas 2011
D-day 2: 3/28/2013
Married for over 15 years
2 beautiful sons
You may not control all the events that happen to you, but you can decide not to be reduced by them. Maya Angelou
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