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strawblond30 (original poster member #6263) posted at 9:50 PM on Wednesday, January 29th, 2014
So my ex stared dating ASAP, after several months I started . Of course with him being a sweetheart treating me like a queen my ex never did I fell fast and so did he. I'm second guessing it now and wish it wasn't or didn't go so fast. Now it's like we are together everyday. I know I don't want my ex back ever but still jealous and hurt. Anyone else feel this way?
Divorced 2013 after several years of infidelity on both sides. Remarried July 2018 my new husband Is opposite from Ex. I can actually breath with out worrying what he is doing. Living my best life now .
fireproof ( member #36126) posted at 12:17 AM on Thursday, January 30th, 2014
If you feel things are going to fast start to slow things down.
I think naturally we get attached faster after betrayal so if you recognize this cut back - maybe a few times a week.
If he is meant to be he will be.
absolut ( member #37933) posted at 12:47 AM on Thursday, January 30th, 2014
Are you literally together everyday? How do you manage it?
strawblond30 (original poster member #6263) posted at 7:35 PM on Thursday, January 30th, 2014
No not physically but we text everyday . It's hard I cry often . I don't know this stage I'm going through thoughts of times that was ok & me missing him. I know I'm moving back not forward
Divorced 2013 after several years of infidelity on both sides. Remarried July 2018 my new husband Is opposite from Ex. I can actually breath with out worrying what he is doing. Living my best life now .
butterfly13 ( new member #41847) posted at 10:15 AM on Friday, January 31st, 2014
completely agree with fireproof. If you sense that you are falling too hard, too fast, protect yourself.
Set some ground rules....like,don't see him more than once a week, or find other social activities that don't involve this person. Occupy your need for happiness in other ways that are intrinsically good for you, no matter what happens with this person in the long term.
Big hug to you!
Me: BS
Him: WH
Married 14 yrs
DS:9, DD:5
DDay: Aug '13 LTA
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