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Falling hard to fast
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strawblond30 posted 1/29/2014 15:50 PM
So my ex stared dating ASAP, after several months I started . Of course with him being a sweetheart treating me like a queen my ex never did I fell fast and so did he. I'm second guessing it now and wish it wasn't or didn't go so fast. Now it's like we are together everyday. I know I don't want my ex back ever but still jealous and hurt. Anyone else feel this way?
fireproof posted 1/29/2014 18:17 PM
If you feel things are going to fast start to slow things down.
I think naturally we get attached faster after betrayal so if you recognize this cut back - maybe a few times a week.
If he is meant to be he will be.
absolut posted 1/29/2014 18:47 PM
Are you literally together everyday? How do you manage it?
strawblond30 posted 1/30/2014 13:35 PM
No not physically but we text everyday . It's hard I cry often . I don't know this stage I'm going through thoughts of times that was ok & me missing him. I know I'm moving back not forward
butterfly13 posted 1/31/2014 04:15 AM
completely agree with fireproof. If you sense that you are falling too hard, too fast, protect yourself.
Set some ground rules....like,don't see him more than once a week, or find other social activities that don't involve this person. Occupy your need for happiness in other ways that are intrinsically good for you, no matter what happens with this person in the long term.
Big hug to you!