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User Topic: Falling hard to fast
strawblond30
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Default  Posted: 3:50 PM, January 29th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

So my ex stared dating ASAP, after several months I started . Of course with him being a sweetheart treating me like a queen my ex never did I fell fast and so did he. I'm second guessing it now and wish it wasn't or didn't go so fast. Now it's like we are together everyday. I know I don't want my ex back ever but still jealous and hurt. Anyone else feel this way?


Me 39, EX H 40 married 17 years infidelity on both parts . He a serial cheater. I cheated for revenge and ran home to brag. Or make Him mad. He confessed to more affairs after that. We are now divorced living apart . 3 children

Posts: 959 | Registered: Jan 2005 | From: illinois
fireproof
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Default  Posted: 6:17 PM, January 29th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

If you feel things are going to fast start to slow things down.

I think naturally we get attached faster after betrayal so if you recognize this cut back - maybe a few times a week.

If he is meant to be he will be.


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absolut
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Default  Posted: 6:47 PM, January 29th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Are you literally together everyday? How do you manage it?

Posts: 421 | Registered: Dec 2012
strawblond30
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Default  Posted: 1:35 PM, January 30th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

No not physically but we text everyday . It's hard I cry often . I don't know this stage I'm going through thoughts of times that was ok & me missing him. I know I'm moving back not forward


Me 39, EX H 40 married 17 years infidelity on both parts . He a serial cheater. I cheated for revenge and ran home to brag. Or make Him mad. He confessed to more affairs after that. We are now divorced living apart . 3 children

Posts: 959 | Registered: Jan 2005 | From: illinois
butterfly13
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Default  Posted: 4:15 AM, January 31st (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

completely agree with fireproof. If you sense that you are falling too hard, too fast, protect yourself.

Set some ground rules....like,don't see him more than once a week, or find other social activities that don't involve this person. Occupy your need for happiness in other ways that are intrinsically good for you, no matter what happens with this person in the long term.

Big hug to you!


Me: BS
Him: WH
Married 14 yrs
DS:9, DD:5
DDay: Aug '13 LTA

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